The holidays are coming soon, and many emotions are surfacing. In particular, in this case, the fear of loneliness is paramount.
Then comes the fear that you won't have anyone, that you don't deserve to be loved, or even envy and jealousy of your friends for being in relationships.
How do I know this?
I'm speaking from my own experience and it's always been like this. I've been in the same situation with the same mix of emotions. Every time I Christmas or New Year's Eve is approaching, I would get anxious or even we fall into depression.
I remember, just 4 years ago, how I started crying and feeling sad because I was alone. I saw all my friends at that time with their girlfriends or maybe with a girl, and I was alone.
When I saw this, I was immediately overcome by a mixture of quite strong emotions. For me, it manifests itself fear of loneliness and that I'm not good enough.
I was subconsciously asking myself: Why don't I have a girlfriend? Why am I not with anyone? Why don't I feel loved? Why do I feel lonely?
Do you believe me now?
This happened over many years. I've only told you about one year, but I want to give you my perspective and learn from my mistakes.
That's why I want you to be aware of these feelings, these emotions that come to the surface. These things come from your inner emptiness, the fact that you're not giving yourself self-love.
I want you to take this opportunity to start working on yourself and giving yourself self-love. It's quite important to start putting yourself first, because you are the most important person.
Don't think about it anymore.
Start investing in yourself. Stop thinking about not having a relationship, stop thinking about being single or why you're single, I want you to start thinking about "How to evolve?".
As a man, you need to know that in today's society, as a man, if you don't offer value to a woman in her life, you have no business being there. As a man, if you don't take action, you won't get results.
Femeile au din belșug bărbați, din cauza ca majoritatea sunt mai nice guy. Ei le oferă validare din belșug. Nu trebuie să facă nimic, dar în schimb tu ca bărbat nu ești căutat de femei.
As long as you sit in that mud and enjoy it, you will never have what you want. You will never achieve the dreams, the desires that you desire.
You won't automatically have the relationship you want.
Get up from the mud
This is society today, there's nothing you can do. If you try to be against what I'm telling you, you'll be trying to go against the current. You want to swim against it, but you'll end up in depression, suffering.
You as a man are interesting and attractive as long as you offer value. As long as you have a mission, purpose, and a huge vision for your life.
For example, in my case, up until 4 years ago I didn't have a goal, I didn't have any objective. In addition to this aspect, I was also a nice guy who was very feminine. How do you show interest through this?
The biggest pillar of attraction for a woman who also excites her mentally is a man with a mission.
It's one thing for a man to speak like this: Okay, I was at work, now I'm home..
And another man to speak: It was a brilliant day, I really worked on my passion, I feel amazing.
Do you see the difference? Do you feel it?
Where do those emotions, those gaps, come from?
That's why it's important to resolve those inner voids that come out during the holidays. These voids are from our childhood, from our parents. During your childhood you formed certain traumas that remained stored in your subconscious.
Therefore, if you are afraid of loneliness, you will attract loneliness. If you are afraid of being rejected, you will be rejected.
It is extremely important to resolve the inside and what you have in your subconscious, because you will attract exactly what is there. You may not be aware of it, but how you feel on the inside is how your outside will look.
Do you have a lot of repressed emotions? These will influence your actions in the future, in your mindset.
What do these goals do?
These goals will pull you down every time you want to evolve. Because we are not taught to work on the emotional side. Everywhere, even at school, we are always taught to train our rational side.
It doesn't teach us to work with our inner self, because you attract what you have inside. You have limiting beliefs, you have indoctrinated beliefs that influence your state and actions, they don't let you be yourself.
Conclusion
As long as you don't work on yourself as a man, you will be a boring man who will kill a woman's attraction. As long as you are a man who works on himself and evolves, you will be an attractive man.
That's why for these inner gaps and how you feel about the holidays, I recommend you join the program I created. THE SUPERIOR ALPHA MAN INNER WORLDYou resolve all fears, anxieties, inner emptiness and give yourself self-love.
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