The other day I made a post on my Instagram page @barbatulsuperior.ro in which I said this:
"If she doesn't give you peace in your relationship and only knows how to make fights, dramas without communicating, LEAVE HER. Life is too short to put up with this constantly."
Miumin Muammer – Dreamer, Orator and virgin etc. (just kidding)
And it's the pure truth that I went through too and I advise you to do the same.
The woman who only causes arguments and drama
There was a relationship a long time ago that I considered PERFECT. Of course nothing is perfect, it was just in my imagination.
Back then we were still detecting behaviors nice guy to me and I worked with them. Especially what bothered and upset me, I didn't communicate. I preferred to keep it to myself and get frustrated without telling him.
She was the kind of woman who, at first, presents herself as "the bread of God." Just like women and men do. We don't discriminate. That's why I don't recommend jumping into a relationship until that initial infatuation has passed, because you don't know exactly what that person is like.
After more time...
After that infatuation has been going on for some time, of course the real "demons" come to the surface. The woman I was in a relationship with had daddy issues. I mean, without analyzing her, I didn't notice that she had problems in her relationship with her father.
More specifically, he started having a lot of arguments and drama.
What solves arguments and drama?
You will most likely meet women who have problems in their relationship with their father. These women usually get bored very quickly and always want adrenaline.
When he doesn't have enough adrenaline in his relationship with you, he resorts to certain mechanisms to produce that adrenaline.
In particular, what we're talking about now, the arguments and dramas she creates out of the blue are her mechanisms.
Careful
I want to point out one thing. I'm not saying there aren't arguments and dramas in a relationship. Women usually do this, but not to the extreme extent that a woman who is bored does.
That woman who is bored and wants adrenaline will start a fight over nothing. Like for example "Why did you drink a bottle of beer? Oh my, how could you do something like that?"Blah blah blah."
For unjustified, pointless and meaningless reasons.
Or she will resort to swearing and insults. It depends a lot on her mechanism.
A relationship has arguments and drama.
When you enter a relationship with a woman, there will be arguments and drama, but for more justified reasons. A woman is an emotional nature and as long as she shows her femininity in front of you, there will be other things.
But what is exaggerated is not okay. Here we need to question what is actually happening behind the scenes.
That's why I recommend leaving a woman who exaggerates arguments in a relationship.
In a relationship with a woman who is head over heels, there will be communication and win-win situations through which you can solve the problems you encounter. Not always, because there will be cases where she "gets it", but 80-90% of the time she will communicate with you.
Life is too short.
Life is very beautiful. You only have one life and you live it in frustration, nerves and bad days?
Why would you stay with a woman who makes your life a misery? Unless you like it too. This comes from the behaviors you saw in your parents' relationship.
Or maybe you don't leave her because you're not afraid of giving up or being alone.
What kind of relationship do you want?
Now comes the next question, what kind of relationship do you want? Do you want a relationship where there is some harmony or do you want a relationship where when you get home it's a nightmare?
Your actions, your choices, lead to the life you have right now.
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