I'm sitting here thinking now, how can I put into writing the information I have about the single woman in her 30s? Most young men are really attracted to women like that.
They find it so fascinating to be with a woman older than them that they end up marrying them.
But they often don't ask themselves the question - Why am I attracted to older women?
I'm referring to those women who really can't find any man to be in a relationship with.
I'm not referring to women whose husbands have died.
How much does a woman's age matter?
I'll tell you a little about my past when it comes to being a single woman in your 30s.
Many, many times I've wondered why I'm attracted to women almost twice my age.
Think about it, I was 20 years old, a little boy, at the beginning of the dating and seduction field, dating almost exclusively single women in their 30s.
Min, we also go with 32-35 or 39, haha.
I was so attracted to these women that I didn't see those my own age.
You would probably say: "Yes, Muammer, but age gives them maturity. They are mature women with heads on their shoulders."
And I would answer you: "Come on, no really. Believe me, some women may be that age, but when it comes to falling in love with a real man, they turn into very loving and sensitive little girls."
Remember this: So a woman's age doesn't MATTER! Age is just a number. Experience tells how mature you are.
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Why is the woman single at 30?
The following opinion is strictly my own opinion and from my own experience. So take it as such.
1. The female role model in her family
The women had their mother as an example in the family, who was probably a the strong, masculine woman and castrators.
What do you expect the woman in question to learn? The same thing, I guess?
If she saw her mother running the marriage, keeping order in the house, handling the money, bringing the money into the house, doing everything herself, and her father just sitting there and gulping, that's how she learned what a woman should be.
A woman who desires POWER, THE ROLE OF THE MAN and THE NEED FOR CONTROL.
This is what she will later turn into. She will want to control in every relationship, to be in control, and men will leave her because they run away from her.
2. Jealousy and Possessiveness are huge
From what I've noticed with single women in their 30s who have an enormous need for control, they are very jealous and possessive. As soon as they notice that their "man" is talking, even being friendly with a woman, they immediately jump on his head to scold him.
Even though it's logically obvious that it's a friendly conversation.
This woman does everything she can to keep women at a distance so she doesn't lose control of him.
3. Hatred and contempt for their father
If a woman in her 30s is single and has the previous behaviors, it can be concluded that on an emotional level she hates and detests her father.
Probably when she was little he was very possessive with her or maybe he abandoned her, the child interpreting that "Men are weak."
With this interpretation she decided that she should become the strong one, that a man is not capable of giving her security and trust. Her father did not offer this to her.
4. Constant criticism and judgment
This woman at 30 still has a tendency.
The tendency to constantly criticize and judge even if you make a minor mistake.
They want to be such perfectionists. They constantly criticize and judge themselves that they take out all this anger on the man next to them.
Having hatred for her father + need for control + anger + frustration + perfection = nuclear bomb when you're wrong.
5. Dramas from every little thing
I don't know if you've ever dealt with women like that who make drama out of anything. No matter how small that mistake, that unexpected thing that comes up, is, a woman in her 30s makes something colossal out of it.
It fills your head and blames you, eventually driving you crazy.
Have you experienced this? If so, congratulations, did you have nerves of steel or did you leave, haha
6. The need to be a mother
Have you ever wondered why they are attracted to "young men"?
Maybe you've learned about yourself, why you're attracted to older women, but why them?
Let me give you a hint: They're playing your mother. They want to babysit you. They want to be very caring. They want to be possessive.
7. The Search for the Perfect Man – Prince Charming
There are also women who may not have the previous sub-points. Some women I've met are so perfectionist and have such unattainable standards that they reject all the men in their lives.
Why? This 30-year-old woman, alone, put her father on a pedestal and God sees it.
So she wants a man in her life who is as perfect as her father.
Tadam.
8. Not settling accounts with the past
The single 30-year-old woman who doesn't attract men because they haven't closed the PAST chapter.
What does this aspect mean? It means they are still stuck in their former relationship and don't want to accept that that man is gone from their life.
They keep it in their mental and spiritual lives.
Physically he is no more.
But in their minds that man still remains there and they look for him in all the men they look at.
How many men would stay with women like this who don't let their partner evolve?
Not really, if she reached this age alone.
Just a young boy to play the child in her relationship.
Conclusion
If you attract such women, you might need to start asking yourself questions.
Do you want to be the child in the relationship or do you want to be the man?
It seems to me that you want to be the child, not that real man.
But you do what you want with your life.
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