"Why Not Fight for a Woman" is a pretty controversial title for a woman. It will probably attract a lot of controversy, especially from women who make men fight for them.
To demonstrate to them how much they love them, want them in their lives, or how much they like them.
Have you ever met a woman like this? Through her words, she supposedly shows you that she wants you to fight for her.
To be there body and soul, but through her actions to express the exact opposite.
I suppose so, if you're reading this article.
How do "men" fight for a woman?
In the past, things were pretty clear when it came to the roles of a man and a woman.
A man offered her safety, trust, protection, and faced dangers for her.
He was fighting to protect a woman. He was fighting to protect his family and his home.
Today, men have come to fight for a woman in a completely different way.
Many fight for a woman by staying at home and waiting for the woman to support them.
Other men fight for a woman by swallowing her whole. her lack of respect.
Other men fight for a woman by not upsetting or bothering her if something bothers him.
Here's an example.You have a girlfriend, and your girlfriend always gets upset that you spend too much time with friends, that you're not romantic enough, that you don't give her enough attention, etc.
In order not to lose that woman, you start fighting for her by making changes in yourself just for her sake. Because that's what she said, right?
Drawing a conclusion... do you think this is how they fight for a woman?
What does it really mean to fight for a woman?
A real man doesn't fight for a woman when it comes to his needs and life values.
He knows what he wants to be given and what he needs, and if they are not met, he communicates, but does not seek these things.
He doesn't seek to please, just for the sake of pleasing the woman in question, for fear of losing her.
He states his needs clearly and specifically, and if he doesn't want to do something, he doesn't do it.
He doesn't have to prove to her how much he loves her, he just wants her to feel more "special" in your eyes.
Many women will make you fight in situations where you really know you didn't do anything wrong, but they still make you feel guilty about your actions.
Logical and rational, you are aware that you are not to blame for anything, but manipulates you in such a way that you think you were also wrong.
And many men start fighting for her, feeling guilty, even if it's not their fault.
Don't fall into this trap. My recommendation, but you do what you want.
Instead, start thinking like this...
In the past, I would fall into this trap too, feeling guilty that I was wrong and starting to fight for her. I would try my best to show her how sorry I was and how much I loved her.
Believe me... you just end up lacking dignity and disrespecting yourself.
Every time such cases happen, ask yourself:
"Did I do something wrong ethically?"
If the answer is yes, then you take the consequences and accept that.
That means apologizing and the rest is up to her, but don't start fighting for her just to change her behavior.
You communicate to him in the following way:
"I understand how you feel and I admit I was wrong. I apologize. I accept your consequences, and if you need anything, let me know."
How do you find this communication? Does it seem masculine, fair, and honest?
You choose not to act like a child who doesn't accept the situation. You choose to act like a man who knows he was wrong.
She'll probably start saying: "You don't love me.","You don't care about me and how I feel."
But you choose to tell him:
"I'm here if you need anything and I can help you." or you just take her in your arms. You decide.
Exceptions to the rule of not fighting for a woman
Women will show you through actions that they want and respect you as a man. They will show you through actions that they love you and want to be with you.
They won't throw obstacle after obstacle at you to make your job harder.
Yes, I will give it to you. congruence tests, to see that you are still a man, but that doesn't mean non-stop. To make you fight for her non-stop.
Women will only make you fight for them if you have a specific problem that prevents them from being with you.
alcohol, drugs, gambling, matrimonials, etc.
These are addictions that will never help you in a relationship or marriage, they will only bring you separation. In such moments, a woman will make you fight for her and show her that you have changed as a man.
Okay, that's if you want it and realize that you have a problem. That you want to change first for yourself and only then for her.
Conclusion
Start giving up on fighting for a woman if you see that she's just keeping you on standby.
Give up if you see that you are fighting for her, but you are just a very good friend.
Give up fighting for her when you see that she doesn't respect you.
Give up fighting for her if she lied to you or deceived.
Start fighting for yourself – your identity, your authenticity, and your emotional balance.
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