Since childhood, at least I have learned everything about women from my mother. Everything that it means to create attraction, to keep her by your side, to win her, to fight for a woman.
This is because my father worked very long hours or was away, I didn't have a male role model, I didn't have anyone to teach me about women.
But along the way, from experience and suffering, you learn a lot of things. That's if you want to. Otherwise, you stay in that mire until you decide to get up and evolve.
Another factor, besides your mother, is the movies that are marketed about romance, masculinity. It's another factor that influences a little boy's life and "teaches" him how to be a man.
So, we'll take each one separately.
What does mother teach us about fighting for a woman?
Our mothers, in general, teach us that a woman is conquered through gifts, lots of love, affection, and promising her the moon in the sky. Writing romance novels and accepting whatever she does. Even sometimes apologizing when it's not your fault.
You know, those moments when you beg her to give you another chance, but you didn't do anything. You didn't do anything wrong, but you still go begging her.
Then it's a moment learned from my mother or from Hollywood movies.
Mothers, at their core, represent a woman. As women, they function on a emotional part and that is their role. A woman is not made to take on the role of a man, because she is not trained to be logical.
The moment she takes on both roles, she has no way of teaching you how to be a man and attract a woman.
This is done by another man who is also a man at heart.
The woman gives you a logical explanation – gifts, nice words, don't talk bad – but when you do them, boom, you realize that these things don't work.
Why?
Because she gave you a logical explanation, not an emotional one.
What do Hollywood movies teach us about fighting for a woman? What does it mean to fight for a relationship?
The same goes for your mother, if you watched romantic movies when you were little, you should know that they influenced your evolution as a man. They did that to me.
From those movies, I learned that to conquer a woman, you have to always be after "her ass", swallow any disrespectful outburst, not have a say, lose your dignity, etc.
But most importantly, talking about our topic, I learned what it means to fight for a woman.
In those romantic movies, but also from a mother, you learn that to fight for a woman you need to put all your dignity aside, all your self-respect aside, and go to the extreme for her.
I mean, what am I referring to?
If he left you, without any good reason, you didn't cheat or lie (the most unforgivable things in a relationship), it comes down to a trivial reason.
For example: "I want to break up because I need a break."
Because you have certain limiting beliefs that were taught incorrectly, you start begging and asking her "WHY? What did I do? What did I do wrong?"
Or you start going to declare your eternal love to her every day.
Let's talk more about this topic.
How does a little boy go about fighting for a woman? How do you fight for a relationship?
The boy learned everything about masculinity from his mother and through romantic, love movies, he believes that fighting for a woman means:
- you are constantly looking for it
- to call or text her nonstop
- to go to her door with lots of flowers
- to go with a teddy bear
- to pray for her through messages or on the phone
- to beg her to give you a second chance
- to write her romance novels
- to turn to her friends to help you reconcile with her
- to follow her
And the list of course, can go on. I've done these things too. Don't feel offended if I say them, because I've been through these things too. That's in case you've done them or are doing them now.
An experience that now comes to mind is a relationship in which the girl in question, even though I knew she was cheating on me, in order to win her love and not leave me, I went to buy a piece of jewelry from Swaroski with all the money I had saved from my allowance.
Yes, I did that. Because that's how I thought you should be a man.
However, she still ended up leaving me and after all I bought her a big bouquet of flowers, but I called her friend because she wasn't answering me.
And guess what? I ended up in the same situation. Alone 🙂
How should you proceed when fighting for a woman?
The world doesn't teach you what it means to be a man, your mother doesn't teach you, or even romantic movies don't. You learn this through life experience, or maybe you found me and are listening to my advice.
A man in the true sense of the word knows who he is, what he stands for, and has respect for him.
More specifically, you will know that by doing those things mentioned above, you risk losing it completely.
It risks killing the last shred of attraction she has for him, because those boyish actions are not a productive struggle, they are a struggle that disgusts the woman.
Disgust and pity for that little boy.
A man knows that fighting for a woman doesn't require him to prove to her that he wants her in his life through gifts or things that lead to begging.
He knows he needs to be masculine and act with his head.
The first important thing when it comes to fighting for a woman
That man knows he needs to stop and see where exactly he went wrong to get her to that point. The woman doesn't get to that point out of the blue.
Something about your attitude, your behavior made her feel those things.
The first and most important thing before fighting for it is to realize what mistakes you made and start correcting them.
Because going to her with the same mistakes will make her realize that you haven't learned anything and she has no reason to reconcile with you.
That man understand the woman and knows how to act. He knows how to win back your girlfriend through fair fighting.
We've discussed how to fight for a woman when it comes to a relationship, but let's see...
How do you fight for a woman in the early interaction?
At first, the same principles and information apply, except that these are first dates and you're not in a relationship with her.
Here things are pretty much the same, the only difference is that the actions are different.
If she stops responding to you or doesn't want to talk to you anymore, it's very easy:
"You don't care about her, you care about what you did wrong."
Because the solution to your problems doesn't lie within it. It doesn't lie outside.
You are suffering now from because you have an emotional wound where "blood" flows and you fell madly in love too quickly, throwing yourself like a bull in the face.
How quickly can you fall in love with her? Just from the first or second interaction? Then you wonder why are you suffering?
If this happens, fighting for it is quite simple:
SEE WHERE YOU MADE WRONG, CORRECT YOURSELF, EVOLVE.
She's just a woman you went out with twice. You're not in a relationship with her. She's not your mother.
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Conclusion
Most of the things we consider since childhood make us believe that everything revolves around women, we try to control what we cannot control, but that is not the case.
All things are centered on you. Your inside attracts what is outside.
Your actions decide your future. The mistakes you make.
That's why I invite you to read my story on the website: HERE
And join one of the programs I created. I guarantee you change if you invest time and energy.
Cheers! Learn how to fight for a woman!
