Before Christmas Eve, a person told me what they did. The fact that they fell into porn addiction is one thing, but more than that, they also fell into the idea of paying for sex.
This gave me the idea to write this article.
Because I gave him the following advice and insights that I want to share with you. Don't make this mistake.
What does it mean to have dignity as a man?
From my point of view, which I also offered to that person, to have dignity as a man is to respect yourself enough to know what you deserve.
It doesn't matter here whether we're talking about family, relationship, or friendship. It doesn't matter what context you're in.
A man who respects himself and takes care of himself will have dignity. He will have respect for himself and will not let himself be trampled on by anyone in this world.
I'm speaking from my own experience when it comes to relationships. Because every piece of advice I give you is based on my own experience and the knowledge I've accumulated.
A relationship followed by evolution…
While we're on the subject of dignity, I want to tell you about a relationship in which I left every trace of dignity aside, believing that what I was doing would be good.
5 years ago, I was in a relationship that I threw myself into. I was giving everything every day, without any principles or life values. I let myself be taken over by that fog, by the infatuation of the moment.
I told her every day how much I loved her, I constantly caressed her, I stayed up all day talking to her on the phone or through messages.
That is until, he started not being like before. He started ignoring my messages, responding curtly and briefly, not returning my emotions, my feelings.
Even though deep down I knew it was disrespectful towards me...
I continued with more love..
I continued to give her even more love. I kept finding reasons and excuses that "this is how you should do it with a woman." That this is what is needed to fight for it.
With all the money I saved from the scholarship I was receiving, I went and bought her a Swarovski bracelet, thinking that this would change things, that maybe I wasn't giving her enough.
This was the first moment when I trampled on my dignity...
Yes, I admit, I made the same mistakes that you're probably making now.
I continued to trample on my dignity
I continued to disrespect myself and trample on her dignity by buying her even more gifts. I started buying her dozens of roses, writing her long love novels.
I was looking for all the things just to prove my "great love" to him.
Until...
Until fate, because I don't believe in coincidences, confronted me with a fait accompli. I caught her having intimate moments with another man...
That was the moment when I realized: "My DIGNITY is gone".
I had no self-respect. I had no love for myself. Nothing.
That was the moment when evolution began.
What does this have to do with "paying for sex"?
Men today do the same thing as in a relationship. That is, they prefer to throw their dignity in the trash and forget about any respect for themselves.
Exactly like I did, but I did both. In addition to throwing my dignity away in the relationship, I ended up throwing it away by paying for sex.
Why?
Because I didn't trust myself and didn't believe I was capable of conquering a woman, I preferred it to be much easier to end up paying for this.
I would rather trample on my masculinity.
I would rather have the shortest path and not bother myself with conversation after conversation, drama, "the madness of a woman."
You prefer to destroy yourself.
Yes, I did that too. Many years ago. You prefer to "scrub" your dignity, take the short cut, not work on yourself and evolve, ending up paying for sex.
Big mistake, sir. Big mistake.
Because in those moments you teach your brain the following thing:
"I don't have enough self-confidence and I don't consider myself capable of talking to a woman to make her attracted to me."
The brain learns that the only solution here is to pay for sex and trample on your dignity, both literally and figuratively.
You better do this.
It's healthier to "masturbate" in your own bathroom, maybe with a TV series on the side, than to end up throwing your dignity in the trash.
You have more dignity when you flush your masculinity down the toilet than when you flush your dignity and masculinity crying for sex.
It's much healthier that way.
Self-confidence (free materials) at least he doesn't die so drastically.
Take this friendly advice
That's why I'm telling you, exactly as I told that person:
"It's better to abstain, to "masturbate" in your bathroom, than to end up losing your dignity"
Even if you say "but masturbation also affects your self-confidence"Yes, it affects you, but believe me, not like paying for sex."
Watch the following video clip on YOUTUBE: HERE
Test this advice I'm giving you, in case you don't believe me.
Start your evolution
Do you no longer have any hope that you can have sex with a woman? Do you no longer believe in yourself?
Well, if you don't act, you don't implement the advice I give you, you don't start evolving and working on yourself, what hope do you have?
I mean, you're wasting your time paying for sex and throwing your dignity out the window instead of starting to read. FREE MATERIALS from here?
This is your own decision and you prefer to bathe in your own mud of your choosing. No one makes this choice for you.
We all have 24 hours in a day, it's how we manage our time and what we do that matters.
That's why I recommend you go read the free materials, listen to my advice, and if you want more, I recommend you join the program I created THE SUPERIOR ALPHA MAN INNER WORLD.
I help you give yourself x100 to your self-confidence, your masculinity.
