Do you want to win back your girlfriend? Let's assume that after the things that happened in This article She ended up leaving you for various reasons. Now you are hurting, suffering, and you want her back at all costs.
Honestly, it's possible. We men tend to take that person for SECURITY in certain relationships and neglect them. Because, in our heads, our imagination is "I conquered it, that's it, I got it".
And this, in certain relationships it can come back to haunt us pretty badly, because that woman was really a 10 as a person, personality and character. We have that thought and stop working on ourselves, on being men and during the relationship, we end up losing her.
My story..
This has happened to me a few times in the past. In certain relationships, even with wonderful women who deserved to be vulnerable and build a beautiful empire, I lost them due to my lack of masculinity and that thought. I had in my head that the attraction was created, I conquered her, that's it, she's mine.
No, it's not like I thought. And for these women, you really want to get to the point of winning her back. You want to win her back.
Instead…
For other relationships, which are toxic for example, it is absolutely not worth your effort. It is not worth any energy to win it back. That is why I want you to ask yourself these questions: Is this woman worth it? Is she that special? Is it toxic or not? Does she respect me or disrespect me? Do I see myself with her in the future?
This is to remove any uncertainty from your head.
The fatal mistake you can make in winning back your lover
A pretty big mistake that most men make is asking her to explain why she's leaving them. That would be nothing, but combined with the drama, victimization, and crying they do, it explodes like the Hiroshima bomb. Just kidding, haha.
I'm putting it this way, that the decision she made to leave you was actually a very good one for her. In those moments, she realizes that it's better to get rid of a whiner than to bother with you.
That's why I recommend in such situations, when you get to the point where he's about to leave you, to just tell him: "OK"
That's it. You were amazed, I know.
How to win back your girlfriend?
Because by continuing to talk to her, you're just stabbing yourself in the heart and making her move away. The moment you said that, you practically stopped time in its tracks.
At this moment, with time standing still, the first thing you absolutely must start and not postpone is...
Start working on yourself and making massive changes. Start analyzing your mistakes, read dating books, go to the gym, run, train your skills.
And during this time, you give her permission to miss you and think about you. By constantly talking to her, you don't give her permission to think about whether she made the right choice to leave you or leave you.
By continuously talking to her, you show her that it is the right decision and the happiest one.
The First Step to Winning Back Your Lover – Work on yourself to win back your lover
Working on you and your total 180 degree change, the attraction will start to go in the opposite direction. While you were talking to her, sitting with her, the attraction was falling. Now suddenly she will take wings and save herself.
I want to mention that this is the first step. There are other steps you will need to take, but until then, I offer you self-love.
Start making changes to yourself, inside yourself...
The Second Step to Winning Back Your Girlfriend – Regain Your Masculinity
During your love relationship, you probably made many mistakes that were not typical of a man. Because of these mistakes, you lost your power, your masculine energy.
Now you need to get it back. You need to get your masculine energy back. How do you do that?
Watch the following video:
How to become more masculine? #evolution #masculinity – YouTube
The third step to winning your girlfriend back – Create attraction, interest, passion and desire
What do I mean when it comes to winning back your girlfriend? I mean that during the relationship due to mistakes, loss of masculinity, loss of trust, etc. the following was lost:
- attraction for you
- interest in you
- the passion between you
- the desire for you
You need to rebuild them. How do you do that?
Become the man she fell in love with at first.
What were you like at the beginning? Joking, relaxed, charismatic, funny, right?
Then you would implement, unconsciously or consciously, the game of seduction and make her smile, make her want you.
You were constantly teasing and playing with her. That's why you need to become that man again in winning back your girlfriend.
The Fourth Step to Winning Back Your Lover – Set Up the New Relationship
Now, most men think that a relationship is about proposing, like:
“Let’s have a relationship” or “Let’s get back into the relationship.” Wrong!
A relationship comes naturally if there is desire, attraction, and shared passion. Relationships happen, so don't worry about it.
When I say setting up a new relationship, I want you to understand that you're starting from scratch.
You are now a different man, more assertive and confident in your ability to lead a relationship with the woman you love.
She, the woman, although she didn't go through the same process as you, learned a lot from this experience (it is assumed).
If you get to this point, the only thing left for you, after asking her what she's done and what she wants to do next, is to think and decide if you want to start a new relationship with her.
The mistake you can make here is to resume the former relationship, in which you engage in the same behaviors that brought you to the brink of breaking up.
Conclusion on how to win your girlfriend back
To win back your girlfriend, I recommend the course I created. THE SUPERIOR ALPHA MAN INNER WORLD which will help you in this regard. Everything that is outside of you is actually inside of you.
