Let's say you're in a long-term relationship or less. You get along really well with the girl, you're happy, joyful, and ecstatic that you've found the "perfect" relationship.
You smile on the street, jump up for joy, you can't anymore.
But one morning when you wake up with a very long message with various reasons for breaking up: "I want a break.", "I don't know how I feel about you", "I don't have time for a relationship."Blah blah blah."
This can be after a few months or even years of being in a relationship.
You feel destroyed...
I understand, maybe you're feeling devastated right now. You feel like the sky has fallen on your head, the world is falling apart, your heart is aching. I know what it's like because I've been through it. I feel those emotions if you're in that position.
Who is the woman staying with?
The woman will always stay with a man who is MASCULINE. What do I mean?
The most important thing in a man is his masculinity, self-confidence and self-esteem, his mission, emotional balance. As long as these aspects remain at a fairly high level, the woman will not leave you. She will not leave you for another man or something all of a sudden.
A woman will always look for the man who offers her the most value in her life and is top of the class among men. Specifically, if you as a man are a 9-10, a woman will not look at men below you in terms of class.
If you, as a man, are a 5, a woman will always look at men who are above you. She will always look for more value, if you don't work on yourself.
What does the woman do in this case?
If a man of higher status than you has appeared in her life or you no longer represent a man to her.
The first case is pretty clear, you don't work on yourself, you don't evolve, and someone else comes along and makes her leave you. As I said above, the woman was always looking for a man with a higher grade.
The second case lies in the things we did during the relationship. You probably learned that a woman is conquered or maintained with a lot of love and affection. You learned this from your mother, because your father was not around to teach you what masculinity means. Let's break this down.
Mistakes you made during the relationship
If your mother taught you to be very affectionate and loving with a woman. This is the first mistake you can make in a relationship. To throw yourself completely at her. To promise her the whole world at her feet, the moon in the sky.
The second mistake is to give up all your activities, your hobbies, your passions – more precisely, your mission.
The third mistake would be to give up on your friends, your outings with your friends. You give up trying to get masculine energy.
The fourth mistake is to constantly be face to face with her 24/7. Not to breathe at all. To be suffocating.
These are some mistakes you can make during your relationship and your girlfriend will leave you. Things that cause the roles of man and woman to change. She should become the man of the relationship, you should be the woman.
That moment..
The moment the roles are reversed is when the attraction starts to fade. Because she slowly notices that you are no longer the man she knew. You start to become a "toddler." You start to become a mama's boy.
The attraction fades and they will reach point 0 of the relationship where they will leave you.
As I said at the beginning of the article, The woman is with a man, not a brat.
Conclusion
Start analyzing the mistakes you made during the relationship and put more emphasis on yourself, because only you can change these things. Analyze and change. Learn from your mistakes and you will benefit.
I did this because I made the same mistakes in the past. I was dumped for the same mistakes.
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