I will always support this, say what you feel and think. Why?
Let's start at the beginning. There are many people who try to impress, lie, or hide in order to reach that hidden "goal" of theirs. There are many people who put too much pressure on themselves to do "place" to the person in front of them. Here I'm referring mostly to men, but there are also cases among women. Let's not glorify only one side. But you see, women are much more authentic and connected to themselves, they are much more direct and honest, the vast majority, and they say what they feel and think.
Oh and I really appreciate these women saying it up front – “No, you don't attract me.", "NI don't want to go out with you." etc. - that's how I know from the start not to insist.
There are also cases where they don't say it directly and take you around, but that's not the topic of the discussion. Anyway, it's just a fear, a fear of their own to protect themselves from "psychopaths". Coming back.
Men, on the other hand, are not aware of this. You destroy yourself inside if you continue not to accept yourself as you are. And if you make a mistake, what? You learn from that. In the future, you will have the necessary experience to know how to be much better. You analyze and improve. You do not criticize or judge yourself for these things. We are human, we learn from mistakes and failures.
Be authentic and congruent with yourself. Don't just sit there thinking "What can I say?","How to do?"or trying to impress that person by pretending to be what you are not. You are only good." you 100%, direct and honest, but at peace with yourself that you're not hiding anything? That's what I would do and that's what I do.
From this comes the connection between a man and a woman. From the naturalness with which the conversation occurs. Yes, you may say that some people will refuse or reject you for this. That's normal. You can't connect and be on the same wavelength with everyone.
You will resonate with some people, you won't with others. You accept that and face rejection like a man. All that matters is that you are 100% you and at peace with your soul.
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