According to my experience and what I've learned over time, the 4 important things in a relationship are: COMMUNICATION, RESPECT, TRUST and SINCERITY
Now let's talk about these 4 important things in a relationship:
communication – because we as humans have no way of reading thoughts, understanding certain aspects, getting to know each other without communicating. The person next to you has no way of knowing how you are, how you feel, what you want, what you desire if you don't tell them. We are often afraid to communicate what we want or we are afraid of losing that person. But have you asked yourself why? Where do these feelings come from? Why don't you respect yourself and embrace it?
Start saying always what you feel and think.
Respect – in my opinion, attraction is born from respect, and not the other way around. Everything starts from mutual respect. Without this aspect, there will be no attraction between you and it will automatically lead to the breakup of the relationship.
trust – I struggled for a long time with trusting the person next to me by being jealous or possessive. But try to think and put yourself in that person's shoes, how does she feel when you control her everywhere and don't give her any air, you suffocate her? How would you feel if she did the same thing to you? Why don't you trust her/him? Let me answer why. Because you don't trust yourself and you want to control everything. You're afraid that that person will find someone much better than you. Leave those thoughts, they don't help you at all. As long as you don't have clear evidence, you have nothing to think about. It's only in your head and You don't automatically escape what you're afraid of.
Sincerity – wow, so hard to find these days, but not impossible. Always be honest with yourself and especially with the person in front of you. You don't solve anything if you lie or hide. You will only bury yourself in a big pile of lies that you will no longer keep track of. And when they start to come out, you will stress, frustrate and it will not bring you anything healthy. Especially since what you give, will come back to you. Respect when someone tells you the truth to your face and tell them the truth yourself.
In my opinion, and I'm spoiling my opinion, there are 4 important things in a relationship. 4 things that a relationship should start with and build its foundation on. Because without a solid foundation, it will be weak and will fall apart.
With a solid and well-contoured base, it will be strong and will go all the way to the white sails.
