We always want healthy relationships with the people around us, but we forget about the most important relationship we have. Not with our mother, not with our father, not with our brother, sister, boyfriend, girlfriend, etc., but with ourselves. we.
How is your relationship with yourself?
There is this expression in the world, namely: "I want to find my other half.". Why do you say that? If you are not fulfilled/complete with yourself, you will look for the characteristics that you believe you lack in another person, and attachment will automatically form.
True love is unconditional. What we often call love is just attachment and that's it. What results from this is all the suffering, jealousy, fear of being cheated on, fear of losing that person, etc.
In life we attract people with the same vibration as us, and those that have too much discrepancy will end quickly.
Having said that, if you complain about not finding the right person, start working on yourself, love yourself first, resolve all your traumas, wounds and emotional blockages. See what kind of relationship you have with yourself. Stop blaming him or her.
While you will not love yourself, you will not be able to truly love anyone. We are all complete, it is our birthright, we just haven't realized it yet. You don't need someone else to be complete, "that's why half". You are already complete.
If you don't feel complete, start looking inward and not outward. See what your relationship with yourself is like. That will bring you much more inner peace. More happiness.
And that person will be a bonus to your happiness. You will feel your feelings towards them with a different vibration, much more sincere and authentic. You will no longer have to go through your filter of limiting beliefs, wounds, traumas, because you love and respect yourself.
Very true
Thank you very much Marius