Every day I hear people start judging others for what they do, how they dress, how they walk, how they behave, etc.
You don't have to worry about this. !
That's why today many people stop doing what they feel and think because of this. Because things like "What will they think of me?","What is that person thinking?","If I get rejected" etc. blah-blah-blah. Why do you think about these things? Why don't you have the courage to express yourself the way you want? Why don't you have the courage to do what you want? Are you just afraid that people will reject you? Why don't you overcome this fear?
And if you stay exactly as they want you to be, won't you become unhappy because you close yourself in, because you repress many things?
You see, what you have in mind is just a paranoia of your mind. It's just a system of self defense for your brain to protect you from "death". You don't have to care when you know that the thing you're buying will make you happy, you don't have to care when you know that's what you want to do or say, you don't have to care what others think when that's your opinion.
Okay, now I don't mean start throwing things, start screaming, or start swearing. I think you've figured this out. I mean be authentic and congruent with what you think and feel, not to be emotionally unstable. To have emotional intelligence.
For example, if someone wants to do something and you don't agree or like the idea, say so. Don't do things just for the sake of being accepted by others, put yourself first. After all, you are the most important person in your life with whom you will spend the most time.
