Insensitive women

About callous women. Today I want to address the "callous" behavior that some women have. When I say "callous" think of a person without common sense and respect for men. I preferred to use the word "callous" just to be more direct, but if you feel attacked we can use more docile words for you to express empathy towards you.

Women without common sense. 🙂

I even made a post on Instagram regarding this behavior and we discussed it a bit there. The post is as follows:

About insensitive women

I told you above what I mean when I say these words, but I want to go into more detail to understand what I mean. I don't know if you've met, but I'm more than sure you've seen such a woman in your life, who has no common sense or respect for men.

All those women do is throw malice at men they think are weak or inferior to them. If that woman feels like you are showing any "weakness" around her, all she wants to do is throw words like a spear to knock you down.

Have you ever felt this? That evil, bullying that a woman like this gives you?

This is the kind of woman I'm referring to. In your mind at such moments, it might be:

"But what did I do?"

"Why do you take them so personally?"

If you show that you were affected by their mean words with such women, you immediately see on their face the satisfaction that they managed to fight you. What a cynic, right?

I've met these kinds of women.

Why are women insensitive?

Some women who seek a lot of validation or think they are superior, holding their noses up online, but even in reality, tend to throw their own pain at men lower than them.

These women have a lot of pain inside them (emotionally speaking), but because they are not aware of it, they take out the pain through criticism, judgment, and malice on the man who has shown the slightest weakness towards her.

The man in question is not at fault, but it makes him feel as if it is his fault.

She turns you on so much on all levels and contradicts you as if she is absolutely right and you are not. Have you encountered situations like this? It's like the woman has driven you crazy with how much she seeks justice, even though you know deep down that she is wrong.

Insensitive women take revenge on weak men because they want revenge on their father.

Somewhere in childhood, the fact that their father left and abandoned their mother creates something in their subconscious, for example: "My father is weak because he didn't fight for his mother, let me show him."

At this point, he begins to avenge himself by taking revenge on all the men who don't stand to "fight" for a woman and seem weak by throwing away the pain created by their father in childhood.

The emotional pain of unfeeling women

Above, I told you a small part of what certain women can experience in their childhood and what kind of impact it begins to have on their lives.

I also want you to become empathetic and ethical in this case. Insensitive women are unaware of the emotional pain they have – the suffering, the sadness inside them – and they cover it up with extreme anger and malice directed at their “victims.”

The woman in question is a wounded little girl who is very loving, empathetic, and soulful, but life has made her so "dangerous."

Going through several failed relationships has made her become a person who keeps soulful and loving people at a distance, believing that she doesn't deserve love.

It's like a cactus that you have to get past the thorns, scratch yourself if you want to get to its heart. You decide.

How do you deal with insensitive women?

I've been running away from insensitive women for a long time in the past because they scared me and I always felt small, weak. I didn't want to confront them. I didn't want to sit there. I didn't want to talk to these kinds of women, but I kept coming up to them.

Think about it, I was running away from them all over the world, but I always ended up with insensitive women. What a paradox.

Until I stopped and started healing what I had in my subconscious.

Stopping, I realized that I was afraid of them, of the bullying they might give me.

As a child I was bullied quite a bit at school because I was and still am darker. Many kids attacked me for it, calling me racist or thinking I was Roma.

That made me angry back then, becoming a heartless man who sought revenge on women.

When I met those kind of insensitive women, I was no longer a "rooster" and became a "hen", haha.

Anyway, I learned to behave with such women only after I learned what was wrong with me. I got to know myself.

With insensitive women, you shouldn't take anything they say personally at first. They'll offer you a lot of humiliation, insults, jokes, or comparisons, but everything they say is to see what you're made of.

If you don't take anything personally and laugh, joke about what the woman says, she becomes interested in you.

Of course you don't have to do this, you can tell him boundaries if he violates them. You decide what you want to do in situations like this.

If it doesn't violate your boundaries, laugh, joke.

If they violate your boundaries, tell them.

Just don't sit around or pretend when you're not respected.

Conclusion

I hope this article helped you more than I think it did. I wanted to share a few words from my experience with insensitive women. You decide what to do with them.

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