The other day I made a post on my Instagram page @miuminmuammer (follow for more information about seduction, dating, relationships and even fun, haha) about "How do you behave when she's acting DRAMA or JEALOUS?".
One boy expressed his point of view in the comments:
"Hmm some younger ones 😶when they act jealous and you don't do anything, you don't say anything after they get angry..."
I got the idea to write:
"What do you do when the woman gets upset and stops looking for you?"
How to be masculine when they get upset and stop looking for you?
Let's start at the beginning, as is proper.
A man who is masculine, confident, and sure of himself will always communicate his boundaries, which bothers him. Of course, he won't take a woman's "s**t" because he knows who he is and what he wants.
Never in this life let anyone overstep your boundaries.
As the saying goes: "When you're good, you're taken for a fool," but that only applies if you swallow a lot of disrespect.
A man who knows what he stands for will not accept a woman, his girlfriend or wife, disrespecting him and will communicate this to her.
How to be a weak man when he gets angry and stops looking for you?
On the other hand, a man, or rather a boy, will swallow a lot of disrespect from a woman. Why?
Are signs of lack of trust in it.
Are signs of lack of integrity.
He doesn't know what's important about him. The most important thing in a man.
And the list goes on. He doesn't know himself well enough to communicate to his woman, girlfriend, or wife what bothers him, what upsets him.
I'm not talking about emotional balance anymore, because he's afraid of being rejected, of being alone, or of losing that girl.
What to do when she doesn't respect you?
Let's say you find yourself in the 2nd situation where you are a man in the making.
You get to the point where you have to take your heart and say what bothers you about her.
You too, step up like the masculine man you are.
However, you have self-respect and you're good enough to "get a knife to the bone", right?
You go and tell him...
"My love, look, this bothers me, it seems disrespectful to me!" "
What are you doing after that?
He tells you that you're a fool and how can you say such things... He gets angry, he screams...
You remain surprised, amazed...
Why does the woman get upset and stop looking for you or talking to you?
You will meet many women who will do this, especially in a long-term relationship. It is something that is commonplace, something that you as a man will "eat on bread" day in and day out.
A woman doesn't do this because "she's crazy" (you don't understand the woman, click here to understand her).
He's just doing it to see how masculine you are as a man.
More specifically, it tests your masculinity.
A woman tests your limits when she gets upset and stops looking for you.
Very often women do this, you communicate the limit, what bothers you, you say what bothers you and she gets upset.
But he doesn't seem to be upset...
She just wants to put pressure on you to see if you change your decision based on her reaction.
tadadadadadada to beat the drums…
How not to become an unattractive man?
I assume you've had it happen to you that you said something or wanted something and she got upset. Because you felt sorry for her or you thought you were "wrong" to change your decision with:
"Let's be love, let's do like you"
"Okay, okay, you're right, I was wrong, I apologize"
Or other similar examples.
The fatal mistake when he gets upset and stops looking for you
She tested you, and you fell into her trap.
He tested your masculinity, integrity, and self-confidence, and you showed him that you were immediately influenced.
By doing this... suddenly, the attraction towards you will start to drop.
To take on the role of man-woman and end up giving you disrespect.
It's a domino effect as in the book.
Why do you always end up looking for her when she gets upset and stops looking for you?
Why do you end up in a position to change your decision?
Let's say more reasons:
- Your self-confidence is low.
- Your self-esteem is low.
- Your self-esteem is low.
- Are you having relationship problems with your mother or father?
- Emotional balance needs to be repaired.
- Your masculinity is on the ground.
The causes, the factors can continue, of course, but I want to give you only the main ones.
What should you do when she gets upset and stops looking for you?
You don't have to go back on your decision!
Analyze the situation, see if you really want what you said or were you 100% honest, and if so, DO NOT CHANGE YOUR DECISION!
It is very important not to do this and maintain your status as a masculine man. A truly masculine man will always keep his word.
If you say something bothers you and the person continues to do it, it's clear that you need to stand by your decision and take action.
Otherwise, little by little you will lose respect for yourself as a man.
Conclusion
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I want to help you see women from a different perspective. Stop seeing them as "crazy" or maybe "frivolous". That's why I recommend you click on the links above one by one and implement the information I offer you for free. Here it's up to you to decide.
No one is coming to make changes in your life or save you. Only you!
Regards,
Miumin Muammer
