I received a question the other day: "Why is it important to find your mission as a man?" / "The importance of a mission in a man?"
That's a super good and very important question.
Remember these words:
MISSION IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN A MAN
Why is the mission important?
A man without his mission is a weak man, without vision, who doesn't know what he wants, who can't offer value.
A man with a mission inspires strength, confidence, security, that he knows what he wants from life, that he has ambition, perseverance, motivation.
First and foremost, in every man's life is his mission, his goal, where he wants to go. Many will probably say that it's not true, it's not like that, what nonsense are you talking about here, but just analyze a little.
For example, why are people with money so attractive? Who have businesses? Because they have a mission, they know what they want, where they want to go, and they work for that cause. It inspires confidence and security in them.
They don't put the woman first, the relationship, they put their mission first. Yes, there is a balance in giving attention to your girlfriend, your wife, so as not to fall into extremes, but the girlfriend or the relationship is not the first place.
The moment a woman feels that you don't have a mission or that you put her first, the center of your universe in everything that your life means, you have already lost half of her. The attraction has already started to decrease, to be in free fall.
How does the lack of a mission affect relationships with women?
A woman doesn't want to feel like she's everything to you, like you see in Hollywood movies. No. A woman wants to feel like she has a man who knows what he wants from his life.
More precisely, that he has a mission.
I've heard stories about how certain men gave up on friends, on going out, on their passions because that woman came along and told them to give up. Out of fear of losing her, of being alone, they gave up.
Yes, I did this too, that's why I'm here to teach you and make you realize that it's not good to do this at all. At that moment, the relationship will fly away like you blow dust off the nightstand.
Again, I repeat, MISSION is the most important thing you should keep in mind and find for yourself.
Just as I found my mission, my passion – personal development, psychology, photography – so can you. Stop making excuses that you don't know how, that you don't have time, that you don't have enough information. We know that deep down you are lying to yourself.
Do you want to be successful? Do you want to become happy? Then take action. Find your mission.
How do I find my mission?
Ask yourself: What do I like to do? What am I passionate about?
Write it down on a piece of paper and see what you can do immediately.
Second point:
Grab yourself and take personality tests to see what suits you.
I recommend the Myers Briggs test. For me, one worked extremely well.
