Dear sir..

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

Since I was talking in a previous post about how "difficult" it is to understand a woman, I thought I'd point out a few more things in the next post, about the mentality of men today.

I am addressing you., the type of man so common these days, who thinks you deserve everything just for the simple fact that you are a man, who thinks that having a bunch of bought women makes you more important, who thinks that if you brag a lot and pointlessly you impress someone, who considers women as a fad, treats them like a toy, then throws out the phrase "all women are the same".

I'm telling you, it's not like that. Every woman is a mirror of the man next to her. Are you a real man to expect her to be a real lady?
I am addressing you. the one who, if you fail to conquer a woman, throws mud at her. By doing this you do not become more of a man, but worse, you even demean yourself and show your dirty character.

I am addressing you., the type of man who, after conquering a woman and entering into a relationship, becomes JEALOUS / POSSESSIVE / AGGRESSIVE, as if, that woman is his property. The type of man who starts with phrases like " You are not allowed. to go out””But why are you going out?””Stay home.””Why were you looking at that boy?" etc. , I can go on and on, but you get the idea. When you do this, you show and demonstrate that you don't trust yourself, that you don't have a life when you start checking her phone, following her, in short, stalking her. Naturally, after a while the glass fills up and you end up alone and wondering "What did I do wrong?". But if you change the perspective of this, it's a beneficial thing, because you realize that you still have to work on yourself, to mature.

I am addressing you. to the one who has forgotten how to treat a woman. Never offend her, especially in front of the world, never try to make yourself more important than her and humiliate her just to increase your own ego or to hide your own mistakes and your inability to understand her. In this way you will do nothing but, as in the previous case, tear piece by piece all the love and respect she has for you and you will lose her.
And last but not least, I address you, the one who has forgotten that only by respecting can you be respected. And only by giving love will you be able to receive love in return.

I understand all the things presented above, because I was like that too, I did exactly everything I wrote. From being a good boy, a bad boy, to a boy who attracts through material things. Of course, until I put an end to this mentality. To better understand how I was, I attach a video below: