Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value.
Albert Einstein
I know, it's hard to understand a woman, it's hard to understand her reactions, it's hard to understand her feelings, it's hard to understand her during that difficult time that every woman has., when he finds a reason to argue in everything, when nothing is the way he wants it.
It's hard to understand her when she feels insecure and represses herself, it's hard to understand her when she stands in front of the mirror before going to a party twice as big as you. You find it stressful. It irritates you.
But believe me, she's only doing this so you can be proud of her, appreciate her even more.
It's tough to understand the woman when she cries over everything, when she gets agitated and when she gets angry for seemingly no reason, but through all of this she does nothing but reinvent herself and regain all her lost strength.
It's tough to understand it when something always displeases her, when she seems like a spoiled brat, but believe me, she doesn't do this on purpose, she doesn't do it to upset you.
She simply does this because she strives for perfection, and perfection is damn hard to achieve, but she keeps trying. It's hard. to understand it when she scolds you for no apparent reason, when she finds in you the person to vent her frustrations and stress of the day spent with the thought of making you proud of her and the way she takes care of your happiness. I know, it's hard to understand woman, it's hard to love her and it's just as hard to please her many times.
I know, I know, but she is consciously or unconsciously testing you, to see if you are a man, if you have emotional intelligence, if you offer her security and trust, if you are ALPHA and not a GOOD LENGTH, who at every little thing takes his toys and leaves. Roughly speaking, there are exceptions when some women don't resonate with you, you're not on the same wavelength or they reject you because they don't feel attracted to you, but throughout the post I'm referring to women who are interested in getting to know you.
"Yes, but what do I do with those who refuse me or don't answer me?" - simply accept this, stop being a "pissed-off boy" who, if he receives a refusal or no answer, starts: judging, offending, insisting or gossiping about that person, that's why even today women are afraid / afraid to show themselves as they are, what they think. Be a man and accept this, FACE IT, THANK HER. In the end, she was honest and told you directly or subtly, not to waste your energy on nonsense. What the hell...
Coming back…
Nothing is easy in life, you just have to look beyond these little tests. But believe me, when you get to really know her soul and make her open up to you, you will truly discover it, as few men succeed, and then, everything that seemed difficult at first, will become something easy and pleasant for you. the man in you.
