How to make her want you in bed? How do you make her want sex with you?
Many men get frustrated or annoyed that:
"Wow, don't they have a much more advanced sex life"
"But why doesn't he want me in bed?"
"Why isn't she sexually attracted to me?"
etc.
Yes, I understand, I was there too, in those frustrations, nerves, anger some time ago. But so you understand, if you continue to stay in this state, focusing on the problem will not solve anything. You only demonstrate to her that you are emotionally unstable and that you cannot offer that woman protection when it comes to external dangers. More precisely, he tested you, you failed and you are PA-PA.
What do you have to do to make him want you in bed?
You have to focus on solutions. Start looking for solutions just like I did. I looked for solutions, I invested in myself, in information, and I put them into practice.
You don't have to victimize yourself or complain, because that's exactly what you'll attract.
What are the solutions to how to make him want you in bed?
Give him/her SAFETY and CONFIDENCE to want you more
What do I mean by that? For a woman to be emotionally open these days, she needs to feel safe and trusted by you. A woman will always open up and say everything she thinks and feels, all those "dark" thoughts, only with an authentic, direct, and honest man.
And this comes from the vibe you have as a person.
You sit in your head and think about how to impress her, not to upset her, not to reject you? Then you will convey insecurity, distrust.
Do you say what you think and feel? Are you congruent with yourself? Then you convey security and trust.
This vibe comes from resolving emotional blockages. The more emotional blockages you have (emotional wounds), the more energy you have stored in them and you as a human only transmit what is left.
You resolve blockages, you attract people with much greater and better energy.
Don't judge her for wanting sex with you!
Why do you think a woman doesn't open up emotionally these days? It's because most men are so judgmental.
"If you're thinking about sex, you're a c****"
"If you kiss on the first date, you're a c****"
Many men label women with these prejudices. That's why women have formed a defense against these men.
But you, by solving the first point, will have a little while before you can solve the second one.
This is where you need to start empathizing more with the people around you. When you feel like judging a person, replace that thought with empathy.
For example: You see a fat man with a woman who is a 10. Your thought is: "She definitely has money and is staying with him for that!" – You tell me. "Yeah, maybe he has a parrot and knows how to behave"
Start solving these two things, and your sex life will radically increase!
Conclusion
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