Greetings, Ladies and Gentlemen!
Up until now, you've learned how to approach a girl and how to get her into your bed.
Congratulations, it means you've become a man and evolved, but have you ever wondered how you behave after you've gotten into bed with her? How do you make her not look at you?
Do you just start your job and you're just there because you caught another one?
Are you giving it your all just to show him that he hasn't met anyone like you before so he can text you the next day?
You give it your all and she does nothing, you don't get what you wanted?
Do you want to do a lot of things but you don't let yourself and you're shy?
How do these questions make you feel? I want you to be honest with yourself and accept any answer without getting frustrated.
Well, I asked myself these questions when I realized that I was giving everything and getting nothing, even if I was getting Fri, we were encountering blockages.
Personal experience of how a woman can't forget you
It all started two years ago when I had just gotten out of a toxic relationship and was discovering myself. I basically started from scratch because I didn't know how to approach a girl, let alone lead a conversation or have sex. It was all new to me.
At first I was frustrated, but I started taking action and after a while the results I almost wanted appeared. I was having sex and validation, I was getting what I wanted, but on the sexual side I had blockages.
I wanted to do many things that would give me satisfaction, but something was blocking me. Slowly, slowly, I got over these blockages and the sex became more and more intense and enjoyable.
I'm going to share this information with you, but until that point, we'll talk a little about sex education.
Sexual education
Nowadays, sex is no longer a taboo subject. Most people know what sex involves and define it as:
Two people of the opposite sex who are in love, mention the genitals of both parties and how the action occurs and that's it. They choose not to go into a little more depth because they feel embarrassed to talk about this topic due to fear of judgment.
Like any other area of life, sexual education is needed, especially if you're experimenting for the first time. Sex education involves your behavior and how responsible you are during sex.
To better understand this aspect, let me explain.
How should a man be educated so that a woman doesn't forget him?
We, as humans, are basically animals. Animals use sex for the purpose of reproduction, as a primary need and that's it. We, humans, use it as a primary need but also for pleasure. If you don't have a sex education, you will have sex out of that animal instinct to satisfy your need, pleasure and that's it, you will be little interested in the feminine side.
That is, the woman will feel used and probably unsatisfied, which will affect her her mental health (this is where responsibility comes in + using protection to avoid certain diseases as well as avoiding the chance of getting your partner pregnant and waking up a dad overnight).
Behavior is how you treat a woman and how you make her feel. An important factor for a woman is safety, for the man to be trustworthy and discreet (i.e., after you have sex with a girl you don't share it with all your friends), for her to feel wanted and loved.
You do this through touches, kisses, the atmosphere you create, the way you communicate, and how open you are.
So far we have talked about how a man should be educated. Next, we will talk about a woman.
How should a woman educate herself so that a man does not forget her?
Sex should be a win-win situation, meaning both parties win (at the end of sex both parties should be satisfied). We, as men, put in the effort to satisfy the female part and then we put in double the effort. And we, as men, must allow ourselves and let the woman explore our body, let her find our erogenous zones, let her be a woman and at the same time transmit our sexual desires to her and vice versa.
Mutual effort is essential for intense, quality sex. The woman should not judge us and give us, the men, the satisfaction we need and allow herself to express herself as she wants.
There should be no shame in letting your sexual partner know that you want oral sex or telling them about your fantasies.
Pornografia
First of all, it is harmful to your mental health. Get rid of pornography because once you watch pornography, a substance is released in your brain that is released during sex and since your partner is not present, you will end up masturbating compulsively, which will create a problem and lower your self-confidence.
Besides being harmful, pornography will create an image of how you think a woman is satisfied, as well as how a woman should look to satisfy you. Stop pornography, it creates an illusion of sex and when you notice that it is not like that, you will be disappointed.
Realize that what you see in a porn movie is just actors being paid to play a role and that's it. The women in the movies are dedicated to just that and probably resort to surgery just to look good and be attractive to the eye.
Coming back, we can say that sex has three stages: foreplay – penetration + ejaculation – the period after sex (yes, this is important too)
foreplay
It all starts with a kiss. Think of this stage as a game, a game where you discover each other, explore each other's bodies, and excite each other. Arousal is achieved by touching erogenous zones. Erogenous zones are those parts of the human body that respond best to sexual stimulation. Each body has three types of erogenous zones: the primary ones, which lead to orgasm when stimulated, the secondary ones which lead to excitement and potential areas which are more or less sensitive and which are found all over the body.
Also, if you feel that your partner is still hesitant or shy, communicate and empathize with them. This will help establish safety, that your partner is in a safe place, that no one will interrupt you and that no one is looking at you. If you are not doing very well and you notice that your partner is not responding to stimuli, there is no shame in asking where they want to be touched and vice versa.
I've heard some feedback from girls that they're unhappy that foreplay lasts too little or not at all. Men, I understand that the desire is great and you can't wait to move on to penetration. Foreplay communicates to your partner that you want her and besides that it's a beautiful stage of sex. You can make her not forget you and look for you the next day right from foreplay, if you do a good job.
Use your fingers, walk them over your partner's body, use gentle touches, not hurried ones.
Wait for your partner's response to the stimulus (nonverbal, not verbal), play with your fingers in the genital area and don't be afraid to insert them into your partner's vagina (don't bite), and from that point on, another story begins. If your partner is shy, encourage her, communicate.
NOTE!
Before inserting your fingers into your vagina, wash your hands thoroughly.
It's a very sensitive area. If you've eaten spicy food before and you have your fingers in the genital area, it won't be good.
Coming back, in the next article I will share with you how to make a woman squirt.
Penetration + ejaculation
Penetration is done by inserting the penis into the partner's vagina and moving back and forth.
It's not a big deal, what changes are the sexual positions and that's about it.
Communication is, again, an important factor. It's great if you communicate with your partner so you know how to move, if something is bothering her, and how not to act like an animal and then cause complications in your partner's genital area.
Besides that, keep in mind that you are both vulnerable and take care of each other.
Ejaculation is different for both sexes. In women, it manifests itself with a more unusual shaking of the body, moaning, and then turning on their side and saying "leave me alone" because they need a break.
In men, it manifests itself through the elimination of sperm and decreased libido (sex drive).
The period after sex
This stage is also part of sex education. Imagine having sex, and after it's over, everyone gets dressed and goes about their business.
It won't feel good at all and you'll probably never see each other again. Just think about it from that perspective.
The woman has given you her greatest value, namely her body and her confidence. If you, as a man, do not appreciate these aspects, and after having sex with her, you get dressed and leave or behave phlegmatically, the woman will feel used and abandoned (lack of responsibility).
You stay with her, give her affection, possibly give her a kiss on the forehead to remind her that she is safe next to you, give her a hug, bring her to your chest, play with her hair, caress her, enjoy her presence.
We are nearing the end of the article. So far we have discussed sex education and what sex entails. I hope the information has helped you and that we have improved your perspective on sex.
We started with the idea of "how do you make her not look at you?", we also did a little sex education, and we are about to draw a conclusion.
To learn more and get a new perspective on how a woman/man feels during sex, I recommend:
-have an open discussion with your mother (if you are a man),
– an open discussion with your father (if you are a woman).
Be careful, don't discuss sex and how to do it, but general things.
Tips & Tricks so they don't forget you
- if you feel tense before sex, do something slightly funny that will amuse you and break the tension
- When you feel unsure about something, say it. It will help you get rid of your emotions.
- after sex, be authentic and try something new, example: slow dance while undressing
- have emotional discussions that arouse positive emotions in the partner
- shower together
- to create a pleasant and comfortable atmosphere for both of you where you are vulnerable
Conclusion of the article.
The way you behave before and after sex, how you satisfy your partner, how you make her feel (safe, that she can trust you, that you want her) and if you also have a little sex education so that you are responsible for her mental health (so that she doesn't feel abandoned or used), will make her look for you the next day.
Remember, doing these things doesn't mean you're a nice guy who just gives. It has to be mutual effort and mutual satisfaction (win-win).
These things will show about you, as a man, that you are a quality person and that you know how to treat a woman.
This was the article!
I hope I didn't bore you and that I added to your knowledge.
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