What do you do when she cancels the first date? How do you react when she doesn't see you as a man?
It often happens that you chat with a girl on social media and you decide to ask her out on the town. She gives you an evasive answer "We'll see, Maybe, I'll think about it", but you know who you are and what you want and in the end she accepts.
Accept it, it's harder, but accept it. You're proud now that you did this, that it worked out for you, stay calm.
You arrive on the day of the meeting, the time is approaching, you get ready and suddenly you receive a message.
"We can't see each other anymore because my mother won't let me"
Out of nowhere, a few minutes ago.
How do you react when your first date gets canceled? What do you do when they cancel at the last minute?
Many men, here, get angry or accept what the woman says, believe it.
Those who get angry start cursing her and calling her "egg and vinegar" and eventually she blocks her.
Those who swallow and remain silent take his words as truth.
What is your first reaction in this situation?
It would be better not to have any reaction to the two situations above.
In both situations you still have something to lose.
In the first point, you demonstrated to that woman who you really are. That you were actually wearing a mask and acting "nice" to her, probably and most likely just to get into bed with her. He tested you., it struck a chord with you and BOOM it hit you in the face. Your emotional wounds came to light.
In the second context, you took her words as truth, which you shouldn't. Never take her words as truth, you have to see the subtlety behind them. You said "Ok, no problem", but guess what, she doesn't look for you anymore, and if you look for her she's super indifferent and uninterested. This is also a test, but much more hidden. Here she wants to see if you respect yourself enough or not. Here you just repress those emotions, what you feel and think.
Many tests are subtle, but over time you realize them and by analyzing your mistakes you correct them in the future. That's how you make productive decisions.
Okay, okay, but ultimately how do I react to the cancellation of the meeting?
Methods when they cancel the first date at the last minute
Before I give you the two methods, I want to talk about this type of woman. Why do they do this? Why do they act like this at the last minute?
Because they are not attracted to you at all or maybe they have a very small attraction. They don't have the courage to tell you to your face and prefer to lie through other lines to cancel the meeting.
These women don't respect themselves, they don't know what respect is, and for you it must be a total lack of respect for your person that shouldn't be swallowed.
You didn't create enough attraction in the conversation, which led to this "trick of hers." That's it. You are not perfect.
But you gave her respect, which she didn't give you.
What do you do if he gives you a serious reason for canceling the date?
I'm not saying that all women who do this don't respect you. You'll see super wonderful women who actually have a good reason. Maybe something happened to them or maybe they have a big problem that needs to be solved. It's about how they tell you.
One is to tell you:
"We can't see each other anymore because my mother won't let me"
Another is:
"I apologize, but we can't see each other because I have a big problem, I promise to make it up to you"
A woman who respects you and is attracted to you will always come up with a new proposal and apologize for it, because she knows it's unethical.
The first solution for when they cancel the first date
The first solution is to leave it in SEEN unless it has a good reason. If it throws you a lie that "It looks like it's going to rain, I'm not going out" or things like that
That woman, again, has no respect and is not worth continuing the conversation with.
You leave it in SEEN and that's it. No further discussion. You'll see what happens in the future.
The second solution for when they cancel the first date
You fight her with her lies and her lack of respect.
The second solution is a voice text in which you don't judge her, yell, or get angry.
In which you explain the problem to him and what he does calmly, relaxedly, but in an indirect way.
To make it even better. I had a meeting scheduled that day. An hour before, the woman came with a message "That we can't see each other anymore blah blah blah"Lies of her own."
I immediately decided to leave him a voicemail explaining the problem:
"Yes, look, I have no problem with you not being able to see each other anymore, everyone has their own priorities, I'm not judging you, but out of respect for me because I reserved a few hours to see each other and spend positive emotions, you could have told me this much earlier so I could plan other things. So, I recommend that in the future you don't do these things with other people, because it's not okay. Again, I don't want you to think I'm judging you, I'm just expressing my opinion."
What reactions will you get if you apply these solutions when they cancel the meeting?
Or you will get SEEN from that girl because she has nothing more to say.
Or you'll get blocked for putting up with that lie.
You'll either get a very positive reaction to stay and see each other then or reschedule.
Here it depends on the woman and why emotional wounds are.
Conclusion
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Try and apply what I say. He smiles and says it's free.
