Today, I did a regression on my inner child. Yes, it's not something exciting for a person who is not related to this part of healing, but I was saying as a miscellaneous fact that I immediately felt an enormous energy come to me by writing the article "I am looking for a serious relationship with a woman."
Paradoxical, right? You wonder what the connection is. the inner child with the fact that I had the energy to write the article.
He has many connections that help in everyday life, for example in a serious relationship with a woman.
We are not aware as men that we do not relate to a woman on a rational level and on an emotional level.
I'm looking for a serious relationship with a woman, but I can't find one.
I've noticed that there's a fairly high percentage of men who don't find a serious relationship with a woman they're attracted to. Sometimes it even leads to despair, to my amazement.
The lack of women in a man's life, or let's say sex, affects him quite a bit, questioning many aspects of himself.
It's just that there is a lot of confusion.
While a man focuses on money, a car, a house, or external material things, he loses sight of many subtle aspects that don't take him where he wants to be.
He ends up not finding a woman to create a serious relationship with or he only meets women to create friends with benefits, or not even that much.
Why does this happen? We often focus on the wrong aspects of our lives that are not our stressors. Yes, they are important to a large extent, but they don't weigh as much as your relationship with yourself would.
The relationship with yourself is the most important thing in reaching a serious relationship with a woman.
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What do I mean when I say serious relationship with you?
When I say serious relationship with you, I mean fulfilling my needs towards you. Starting to:
- to see, hear and understand yourself more;
- to be gentle with yourself, without self-deprecating, criticizing or judging;
- to love yourself more, to give yourself healthy self-love;
- to respect yourself more;
- to maintain your boundaries both towards yourself and towards others;
- Don't betray yourself, what you say and do;
- to appreciate yourself more;
- to give yourself more attention;
This would be the definition when I say healthy relationship with you.
What does your relationship with yourself have to do with a serious relationship?
Let's think about the following analogy. If I am harsh, strict, and severe with myself or I am not understanding with myself at all, what happens?
What if you constantly criticize or judge yourself when you make mistakes?
What if you "beat yourself" when you don't do things perfectly?
What if you betray yourself?
Don't you think that's how you'll behave with the people around you? Don't you think that's how you'll behave in your relationships or interactions with other people?
If you consider this or agree with me, congratulations. If you don't consider this, then you might want to think again.
What happens if you don't have a serious relationship with yourself?
It depends.
A lot happens in a man's life if he doesn't have a commitment, a responsibility towards a serious relationship with him.
Basically, it happens that he teaches strength, manhood, and masculinity to the women next to him, and a woman does not want a serious relationship with another woman or a child.
How can a good boy who expects his "mother" to take care of him have power? Let's be serious.
How can he have the responsibility and ownership of a relationship with a woman if he has no ownership and responsibility towards her?
How can a boy who represses his masculinity by having an unproductive relationship with himself have masculinity?
I think you get the idea. You won't be able to maintain a serious relationship with a woman when you're not in charge of your life.
If you are going to have a relationship with a woman, then that woman will not have a serious relationship with herself either. The same people are attracted to each other. Paradoxical, right?
What happens if you have a serious relationship with yourself?
Let's think logically and rationally now. If I said above that depending on how you behave with yourself, what relationship you have with yourself, that's how your behavior will be with the people around you, especially with your woman, who would be their opposite?
Of course, when you have a serious relationship with yourself, you get more benefits from life.
You begin to attract opportunities, to see opportunities in life, to smell them, to feel them, etc.
As long as you are in an emotion of unhappiness, sadness, because the relationship with you is one of lack, you will not see prosperity in your life.
As long as you are in an emotion of happiness, joy, and love, you will see opportunities and attract good things into your life.
That's how things work. Easy to say, but hard to do.
What should you do to have a serious relationship?
First of all, you need to start with yourself. Just you with yourself.
Start by looking in the mirror into your own eyes and tell me if you are happy with yourself, what you see. Be honest with yourself, leaving your ego aside.
Start by writing on a piece of paper what you would like your life to look like, but what it actually looks like. Draw a parallel between them.
Start by looking for solutions to the problems, the stressors in your life.
To get out of the victim mentality, it would be good to ask yourself: “What do I have to learn from this?” Many people find it easy to sit in the victim role to complain that life is unfair to them, but they don't look for solutions to solve it.
Start taking life by the "horns" to direct it in the direction you want, not for it to direct you in the direction it wants.
If you let yourself be carried away by the wind, then assume where you have ended up or will end up.
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Conclusion
I hope I made you understand more in this article. I hope so.
I hope I've at least opened your mind more about what a serious relationship with a woman consists of.
If I didn't make you understand, then waste more time until you realize that you need to take care of yourself.
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