How do you know she's attracted to you?
Throughout your life as a man, you will have many encounters through which you will meet different women. Maybe to have a long-term relationship or maybe to share beautiful moments with them.
This aspect doesn't matter, you have it in mind, what you want and what you desire. I'm just giving you the information to understand certain aspects of this interaction.
For example, attention to detail is very important.
Why is attention to detail important?
Because it saves you a lot of time from being in the wrong and pointless interactions. Specifically, if you know a woman's non-verbal and verbal indicators of attraction, you will instantly know if that woman is attracted to you.
You'll instantly know through those attraction indicators whether it's still worth staying on the date or leaving.
Because throughout your life you will meet women who will only go out with you out of boredom. They have nothing to do at home, nothing to do with their lives, and they go out with you out of complacency.
Or you will meet women who will give you "false alarms" that they want to get to know you, that they are attracted to you (I say this verbally) but through their attraction indicators they say something else.
Through these attraction indicators, you will filter out those women who really like you and want to spend time with you.
What are the indicators of attraction?
VERBAL attraction indicators
- Restart the conversation when you've gone silent
- Compliments you.
- Asks you questions about yourself
- She challenges you, she's playful.
- They caress you, they call you names.
- Asks you if you have a girlfriend or mentions without asking to find out if you have one
- She asks you to show her things or help her learn.
- Makes you a player or a fuckboy
- They ask you if you have a fire.
- They notice you for no reason.
NON-VERBAL ATTRACTION INDICATORS
- He plays with his hair when he talks to you.
- Scratches/touches the inner wrist area
- He squeezes your hand tighter or grabs you from somewhere.
- Smile all the time and laugh often at your jokes, even the stupidest ones.
- He often looks at you when he is not with you.
- He is around you.
- If she's not in the group with you and she notices you
- Touches you intentionally or accidentally
- When he says or does something, he immediately looks at you to see your reaction.
- He buys you a drink or treats you to something.
- She introduces you to her friends.
- When you leave, he comes and asks where you're going.
- When he leaves, he comes and greets you.
- It mirrors your gestures, reactions, tone
- Makes the facial triangle- eyes-lips-eyes
- Holds long eye contact with you and talks to you for long periods of time
- Ignores his friends and phone
- Makes up reasons to stay with you
Above, I provided you with a table with verbal and non-verbal indicators of attraction.
What do I do if I don't notice the attraction indicators?
You realize and are aware that you won't see them all at once the first time. This will come with experience.
Through experience and being attentive to her language – how he speaks, how he gestures, how he expresses himself, tone, mimic – you will notice these indicators, and your brain will take over this information every time and it will become automatic at some point.
You just have to be patient and not put pressure on yourself.
Over time, you will notice how you can distinguish them without wanting to. You won't even have to pay attention anymore.
If I notice an indicator and it might be wrong, will they reject me?
Body language will never lie. That's why I have the following mindset, the following principle: DON'T BELIEVE A WOMAN'S WORDS, BELIEVE WHAT SHE FEELS
Specifically, women say a lot with their mouths. They usually talk quite a lot, haha (not a bad thing). But they won't be able to control their bodies either. Your body shows exactly what you feel inside about that person, not what you say.
You continue to pay attention to her nonverbal language, indicators of attraction, and not to what she says.
At that moment she if they reject you they are just testing you, it doesn't mean he rejects you or doesn't like you.
What if I see the indicators of attraction, but I'm too excited to act?
Here is another challenge you need to solve. The moment you see those indicators of attraction, and you feel like taking action (kissing her, touching her), but the emotions set in (fear, dread) then an emotional wound is created.
That means the fear that you will be rejected, refused, probably sets in.
The moment you enter an emotional wound, you will act from that wound and not from your authenticity.
You will do things just to not lose her.
But again, I'm here to give you quality, basic information to help you evolve. I'm interested in you evolving and getting to where you want to be.
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