Being a real man also means having high standards to be a hotel where quality women come in. I remember a few years ago that I was a boarding house for any woman I met, whether I agreed or not.
Standards, principles and my respect Self-esteem didn't exist back then.
Are you a prestigious hotel or a cheap guesthouse?
You probably understood the analogy I make between a hotel and a guesthouse in this article.
If you didn't understand, you'll understand now.
A man who is confident in himself knows how to select the women he sees or has sex with (you are a prestigious hotel).
He knows that he needs principles to guide him and not to accept any person who seeks to:
- use it
- not to respect him
- not wanting to evolve
- to ignore his needs
It has high "prices" in terms of access to it, and that inspires high value.
But a man who is a boarding house has low standards. He accepts anyone.
He dates any woman who shows interest in him.
He has sex with any woman just to get validation from there.
It doesn't matter whether he is attracted to that woman or not.
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How do you achieve high value?
You're probably thinking that you need money, an expensive car, a villa, etc.
Yes, but these are the bonuses to your high value. Until you have these material things, it takes time, energy, and sweat to achieve them.
But do you know that you can replace these things and show high value through another aspect?
You're going to ask me which aspect? How can I have high value?
Until you get to have those material things or become rich, you can work on YOUR ATTITUDE.
I don't know if you've noticed the attitude of a self-respecting man?
I don't know if you've noticed the attitude of a man who has money?
Think a little and analyze what attitude a man has confident in him.
Traits of a confident man
The attitude of a confident man can be seen through a series of traits and behaviors that reflect confidence in himself and his abilities.
Let me show you some key aspects of such an attitude:
- Posture and body language: A confident man stands tall, with his shoulders back and an open posture. He doesn't withdraw into himself or hide his body, but occupies the space confidently.
- Eye contact: This type of man maintains eye contact naturally and without being aggressive. He does not avoid looking or feel intimidated by the gaze of others.
- Clear voice and firm tone: A confident man speaks clearly and in a firm tone of voice, without being aggressive. He doesn't whisper or speak uncertainly.
- Communication skills: He is able to listen carefully and respond appropriately in conversations. He does not try to dominate the conversation, but he knows how to express his views confidently.
- Decisions and taking responsibility: A confident man is able to make decisions and take responsibility for his actions. He is not afraid of failure or criticism and learns from them.
- Healthy self-esteem: He has a positive self-image and does not compare himself excessively with others. He does not need to prove his worth through exaggerated externalizations.
- Personal style: A confident man may have a well-defined personal style. He feels comfortable in his own body and chooses clothes that reflect his personality.
- Social skills: He feels at ease in various social environments and can interact with people from different backgrounds and with diverse personalities.
- Goal setting: The confident man has goals in life and works to achieve them. He is success-oriented and confident that he can achieve what he sets out to do.
- Empathy and respect: Although he is confident, he is not insensitive or selfish. He displays empathy towards others and shows respect for their opinions and feelings.
- Well-defined principles: A confident man has well-set principles that guide him in life.
The moment you integrate this attitude towards yourself, but also towards women, you will begin to become a luxury hotel.
You will no longer be a boarding house that accepts anything from women.
Conclusion
Until you have money, a car, and a fancy house, start working on your attitude. It's important.
Choose carefully who you welcome into your home.
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