Before I tell you what I mean when I say "Beauty and the Beast," I want to tell you that I am grateful that you are reading this message and that I hug you, whoever you are.
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The movie "Beauty and the beast"
You probably saw the cartoon "Beauty and the Beast" in your childhood. More than likely.
If you're around my age, you've probably seen them.
"Beauty and the Beast" is one of the best-known tales in European literature and was particularly popularized by Jeanne-Marie Leprince de Beaumont's retelling and Gabrielle-Suzanne Barbot de Villeneuve's version in the 18th century.
Here's a short version of the story:
Once upon a time, in a small village, there was a girl named Belle. She was beautiful and intelligent, but very modest and gentle. Her father, a merchant, got lost on a journey and ended up in the castle of a terrifying creature known as the Beast. To save her father's life, Belle agreed to stay in the castle in his place.
At first, Belle was afraid of the Beast, but as time passed, she discovered that he was a strange being, but not as scary as he seemed. The Beast was sad and lonely, and Belle was able to see beyond his frightening appearance.
While Belle stayed in the castle, a special relationship began to develop between her and the Beast. He was kind to her, and she began to feel compassion and love for him. Over time, the Beast began to scare Belle less, and she realized that she could see the beauty within him.
Eventually, Belle was forced to leave to visit her sick father. However, she promised to return. While at home, her father was attacked by his rival, Gaston, who was trying to convince Belle to marry him. Belle refused and revealed the truth about the Beast, hoping that the people of the village would understand.
When they heard that the Beast was real, Gaston and the villagers went to attack him. Belle arrived at the castle at the last moment and found the Beast injured. As Belle confessed her love for him, the Beast was transformed into a handsome prince, and the castle became splendid again. The curses were lifted, and Belle and the Prince lived happily ever after.
The moral of the story is that true beauty is found deep within the soul of people and that true love can change the hearts of even the most terrifying creatures.
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What does the story have to do with a man?
You've probably noticed that today there are many men who act strong, arrogant, unapproachable, etc., but who inside are very sensitive.
They want to attract a beautiful woman who will love them for who they are, but they show another mask on the surface for fear of hurting or becoming attached.
Do you find yourself in what I said before? Do you always try to hide your feelings, your emotions?
Are you trying to be someone else and not letting people love you?
Stop and think for a moment.
Fear of attachment Men's
Why am I telling you about the story "Beauty and the Beast"? What does this children's film have to do with me?
In the past, I was, metaphorically speaking, in the place of the beast character.
I mean the fact that I had a lot of masks, external barriers that I put up against every person.
I won't say anything about women. I was full of distrust in those women.
Until I realized I had a fear of attachment. What is fear of attachment?
What the internet (Chatgpt) says about fear of attachment:
"Fear of attachment is a psychological theme that refers to a person's fear or anxiety about developing or maintaining deep, healthy emotional connections with other people. This type of fear can affect a person's interpersonal relationships and can have significant implications for their emotional state and psychological well-being."
Fear of attachment can have different causes and manifestations, and sometimes it can be linked to previous traumatic or difficult experiences in relationships, such as abandonment, betrayal, or neglect. People who have had such experiences may develop a fear of attachment out of fear of being hurt again or of not being loved or accepted for who they are.
This fear can lead to avoidance of intimate relationships or unconsciously sabotaging them. People who experience attachment anxiety may withdraw emotionally, avoid closeness, or engage in rejection behaviors to protect themselves from potential emotional pain.”
So you see. Is there a correlation between the movie "Beauty and the Beast" and masculinity?
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Retreat into solitude and control
I don't know if you've noticed, but men who have a great fear of attachment, who avoid pain and suffering, prefer to retreat into solitude like beasts.
To avoid possible disappointment from women, as an example, they seek to isolate themselves in solitude.
These things can come from several causes:
- Previous life experiences: Past trauma or difficult relationships can lead to anxiety or fear about developing deep emotional connections. If a man has had painful experiences in past relationships, he may be reluctant to open up emotionally in the future.
- Cultural pressures: In some cultures, masculinity can be associated with independence, strength, and avoidance of expressing emotions. This type of cultural pressure can make it difficult to express and develop deep emotional connections.
- Fear of vulnerability: Sometimes, men can perceive expressing emotions and attachment as a sign of weakness or vulnerability. This can make them feel insecure or exposed in front of others.
- The pressure of independence: Some men may feel pressure to be independent and self-sufficient, which can make it difficult to accept help or develop close bonds with others.
woman that changes the pattern of experiences
The Beast was isolated in loneliness and unhappiness. He believed that he was meant to be that way because of the evil people he had encountered throughout his life.
Until it beautiful woman came and changed this perception.
A woman who was able to understand him beyond the masks, the barriers of the beast character.
More precisely, from a psychological point of view, on an emotional level, if a man meets a woman who does not seek to make him suffer or be disappointed, he will change. limiting beliefs about what a loving attachment means.
He begins to see that he can be happy, that he deserves to be happy, that he is good enough to be happy. It takes him out of that loneliness and unhappiness that keeps him locked in his mind.
Conclusion
There are many men in the situation the beast presents.
There are many men who have changed since a character like the beautiful woman appeared.
It's just that many men don't notice these aspects of their lives and don't want to make changes.
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