The truth is rarely pure and never simple.
Oscar Wilde
I have noticed how every day, a woman's fear is to say what they feel and what they think, because today's guys have started to judge / to criticize / to offend.
I've noticed how women stay in conversation out of respect or are afraid to say it on a date."Wow, you really don't attract me, take me home" and they find various excuses to stop the conversation or leave the date.
They are afraid that who knows what crazy person is out there and something could happen.
Me as a man, I always proposed from the start, every woman I've talked to has been as honest as they can be, no matter how painful the truth is. And you as a man should realize, that if you receive seen / refuses you / rejects you, looking for some excuse on the data"My friend has a problem, I have to go." means she's subtly telling you that she's not interested.
Why do you insist and insult? Why do you gossip and judge her? This won't help you, and it will show how immature you are.
I understand you that maybe you're afraid of refusal or rejection and you want to show through this that you're I don't know what"domineering man"and you don't accept that. I understand that at that moment a anger inside you and you want to express it. Why don't you do this in a productive way? Why don't you just tell her that you want to get to know her, but if she's not interested she can tell you without any problem? That way no one wastes their time.
In life we still receive refusals and rejections, you just have to change your perception about it and not take it so personally. You can't resonate with everyone..
