Today I thought I would talk about the following aspect: Social conditioning and judgment – more specifically social conditioning and how men judge.
Well, society today teaches us how we should be, just as it "teaches" women that they shouldn't expose their sexuality, so men are taught that they must always be strong, not to cry, not to show their emotions, not to be vulnerable, etc.
This is just a first trigger factor (Social Conditioning and Judgment), the biggest factor is the way guys today judge women and their decisions. Like for example: "all women are the same", "if you do this you are frivolous", "if you have sex you are a c****" etc.
And I think this is stupid. Why do you care what decisions she made or what she does, as long as she's not with you. It's her life and her own decisions, just like you do what you want, how you want, when you want. The woman wants security, trust, honesty and freedom. You again once time this where judge, don't give him these things.
Start to understand it, it's not that hard! Connect with her emotionally, because if you try to understand her logically you will lose yourself and you will lose her too.
Now that we've talked about women, let's talk about men. Yes, it's good to be strong, confident, sure of yourself, but you are no problem to be vulnerable and show your emotions too. Because if you repress them, you will become a rigid, robotic, extremely masculine man who does not show his love, his feelings towards the people he loves.
Allow yourself to be. vulnerable with people who deserve it.
And the people around you also want to feel loved, appreciated in certain difficult moments. There is always and will be a balance in everything. In self-confidence with health, impulsiveness with ethics, education with experience.
The balance of health and confidence will result JOY.
The balance between impulsiveness and ethics will result CHARISM.
The balance between education and experience will result GENIUS.
