In the past, do you know how many women have rejected me with the excuse "I have a boyfriend"?
Think about it, I was approaching 20-30 women online a day. If we put 365 days x 20 = 7300 approaches in a single year.
If they also put the approaches on the street, the number will increase considerably.
Today I want to present this topic to you: Why does a woman reject you with "I have a boyfriend"??
The woman is constantly being approached online and on the street
When you go out on the street, how many people do you see, specifically men? Hundreds if you keep walking.
When you go out to the club at night, how many men do you see? Hundreds if you count how many come in and out.
As many men as you see, there are as many women. Okay.
Think about it, a woman is approached at least 10 times a day – online approaches / street approaches.
Especially if it is a beautiful woman – at least 50 times – the online approaches – on the street are much smaller, they just stare at her.
The woman rejects you automatically
The fact that she is constantly approached has formed a protection mechanism for herself against all men.
This is to get rid of the men who:
- they don't like it
- doesn't find them attractive
- they didn't pique his interest
- thinks they are like everyone else
- wants to sell him something
- he is afraid and fearful
The woman has developed an automatism for online and street approaches.
It was his reflex to do this.
The woman politely rejects you.
This is a pretext for polite refusal.
To avoid conflict, criticism, or judgment from you, this mechanism protects her from danger.
There are many men who can't handle a direct refusal to their face and react quite aggressively to both online and street approaches.
You've probably met or even been one of them:
The man acts very polite, gentlemanly, gentle and nice with the hope of receiving something in return. He sets expectations. The woman senses him doing this, but she still refuses him.
That man, getting angry and enmity, started cursing her: "You're a whore!"
What do you do if the woman rejects you with "I have a boyfriend"?
You probably understand the reasons above, but I also want to tell you what to do.
How do you act?
I'm telling you here, but I actually made a video on Youtube about this. If you're a fan of videos, click below to watch and leave a Subscribe.
If you're not a fan of videos and want to read, let me explain in the following lines.
There are 2 types of women:
- the woman politely rejects you or they are testing you
- the woman who actually has a boyfriend/girlfriend
You will encounter these 2 types of women in online approaches or on the street.
I'm speaking from my experience of tens of thousands of online approaches and street approaches.
The woman politely rejects you or they are testing you
To figure out this pattern of women, it's very important to make a joke about what she said. For example:
You: Hi, I saw your shirt and I thought it was Mickey Mouse. It's so innocent, even though you look mean, haha. What's your name?
She: Amalia, but I have a friend...
You: It's ok and I have a few friends, we join groups and we still know each other, haha 🙂
She: Quiet…
You: What are you doing? How are you feeling?
She: Look, I'm just going for a walk and then I'm going home. What about you?
What do you see? What do you realize here? I'll give you a few moments...
He stayed in the conversation even though he told me "I have a boyfriend" and didn't bring it up again. Why?
Because it was an automatism, a polite refusal or a test.
In this case, I passed it on to him and he completely forgot.
The woman who actually has a boyfriend/girlfriend
In this case, you probably realize that it is the exact opposite of the previous example.
You: Hi, I saw your shirt and I thought it was Mickey Mouse. It's so innocent, even though you look mean, haha. What's your name?
She: Amalia, but I have a friend...
You: It's ok and I have a few friends, we join groups and we still know each other, haha 🙂
She: Hush...but seriously, I have a boyfriend.
He reminds you that he has a boyfriend or he leaves and says "I have a boyfriend."
His voice and attitude are serious. He's not joking at all.
Here it is important not to insist and just do your job.
Approach another woman.
Conclusion
Don't easily fall into this "friend" trap because sometimes it really isn't.
I can tell you hundreds of such examples who later forgot they had a boyfriend.
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