I've noticed lately, from the questions I've received, that many women end up in relationships becoming cold, not communicating, indifferent, selfish, etc.
He loved you before.
From that woman who was super loving, affectionate, communicative, energetic, positive, and had a great desire for sex, she became a nonexistent woman in that relationship.
From that woman who pampered you and was super feminine, arranging to impress you and showcase her qualities, she became the exact opposite.
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Why is it getting cold with you?
In this article, I want to talk about this, because I've been there too and I know what it means to end up as a man begging and asking her: "What happened to you? You're not the same anymore" / "What did I do wrong? What did I do? What happened to you?".
I'm saying that many of us have been through this and we know what it's like. If you haven't, I'm happy for you, honestly.
I will offer a perspective from my point of view and what I have experienced. Maybe other people will have a different perception of this aspect, but this is how I see things.
How are things really going?
Many men, because they were cheated on in the past, were disappointed in previous relationships, turned from those loving and affectionate boys, into "bad boys."
Because they noticed that they were cheated on with those, they were left for those bad boys. They started to create limiting beliefs that "Woman is s**t", "Woman is a*******", "She is no good, she deserves to be beaten", etc. and all that kind of nonsense.
Because of this aspect they created a mask for themselves. They cI have an illusory trust., false self-esteem, false sincerity and directness. These stand on a very shaky foundation, and more precisely that of a good boy.
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What do you mean?
To give you the following analogies. Like for example, when you put on a mask, you just cover a ruined cake with marzipan or you decorate the apartment on the outside but it's ruined on the inside. I hope you get the idea.
And they will continue with this mask for a while until... guess what... they get tired and a woman comes along who puts a lid on them, and they say: "This girl deserves it, I'll be more open for her."
At first he will be "CONFIDENT" and "SURE OF HIMSELF", but along the way because he believes this girl deserves his love and settles down with her, something happens.
What's going to happen?
At that moment he takes off his mask, that is, he takes off his entire exterior and that nice guy base comes out. The woman notices this and asks herself questions: "Well, it was different when I met him"
And He starts testing you at that moment, he starts making jealous scenes., drama, they stop respecting you, and the attraction slowly decreases because you are a good boy now and you are failing them all. This attraction reaches 0 and they no longer perceive you as a MAN.
This would be one of the aspects "Why is he getting cold towards you?", because you wore a mask and after a while you thought it would accept you for who you are you gave it up. Now you wonder why it gets cold?
I will continue in the next article with other aspects. I invite you to read PART 2.
Cheers! Smile because it's free!
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