She's shy around you or in conversation, then read to the end.
During the minimum 7 years of experience I have in dating, seduction and personal development. I have met many women. Especially shy women as well as men who have told me the following things:
"I met a girl, but she doesn't talk much, I want something with her. What can I do? How can I make her more attracted to me? She's in her place, she doesn't go out much, she's not like other women"
"I met the shy, beautiful, and down-to-earth woman, but I don't know how to make her attracted to me. How can I get her to open up?"
My story with shy women
As I said, over the years I've met quite a few shy women, but I didn't stay with them for long, as I'm more dynamic and talkative.
I'm going to tell you my story with the shy woman that left me amazed about what can hide behind a shy woman.
I approached it online, more precisely on Facebook. Online, she was very talkative, "loud-mouthed," and it didn't seem like she was shy at all.
I was so excited and excited that it resonated quite well with my sexual intentions, but still skeptical.
I felt something was wrong.
I went out to meeting and suddenly she changed radically. She could barely speak, I could barely get the words out of her, she could barely make a move…. my mind was completely disoriented. What was happening?
I analyzed the situation and sat on standby for a while. I continued to maintain my conversational pattern and didn't let myself be influenced by her shyness.
When I arrived let's have sex... the "dragon" came out of her... She wasn't the shy woman from the beginning, haha.
What is the conclusion of the story about shy women?
What do I mean by the story above? You know that saying "the mute fwte the earth"?
That's exactly how it is with shy women. They're quiet, they're silent, they're analyzing you, but once they've gained trust and confidence in you, only then do they show their true colors.
But why am I doing this?
Shy women are afraid of being rejected.
Having the fear of rejection, a person will always try to control themselves as much as possible. To be as perfectionist as possible and not do something wrong to put themselves in a position to be rejected.
So at first, until he gains trust and confidence in you, he will act like a robot...
Shy but overthinking
What do I mean when I say overthinking?
I mean the tumult of thoughts that you have in your mind. There are so many thoughts to control the future that your mind splits the thread into 100000 possibilities.
The mind has a pattern of giving you all the possibilities that can happen in the future for every action you think about taking.
When this happens, you often end up in a deadlock.
Shy women are shy.
You may not agree with me, but often people who are very much in their own minds also have the craziest thoughts or sexual appetite.
Why do I say this?
She has a strong desire to act on her sexual desires, but she is afraid of being rejected or being thought crazy.
Until she believes that the person in front of her is trustworthy and offers her a space to accept her as she is, the woman will be shy.
The moment you create space for acceptance, BOOM, he starts flirting with you without you being ready. 🙂
What is the shy woman like?
As I told you above, at first the shy woman is reserved, shy, but after that... you can't get rid of her.
Even if she will still be shy with other people, with you she will feel relaxed and communicative.
She will always call you, always text you to ask you to have sex with her because you are the only person who understands her.
You're the only person who resonates with it.
Stop and think for a moment, analyze the situation.
Yes, there are other shy women who you can't bring out of their shell. They sit there and you need a steely patience to get them to become casual around you.
From my point of view, with such women you waste your time and energy.
How to behave with a shy woman?
After I've told you all of the above about shy women, what do you think now? What do you think?
I was amazed that that shy girl was the smartest, with an A in her class.
Until then, I had a different opinion about shy women.
Anyway, I want to tell you how to behave with these women:
- Don't put pressure on it, because it will crack.
- Don't force them to do things because they get stuck.
- Let everything flow naturally or seem natural.
- Show her that you don't want to fuck her and then leave her.
- Keep up with her, don't rush the pace or she'll get scared.
- Ask her about her biggest fears or what she's hiding in her mind.
- Show him that he can express his inner child.
Signs that a girl is shy
Signs that a girl is shy can vary from person to person, but here are some general clues that might suggest that someone is shy:
- Avoiding eye contact: Shy people may avoid looking into others' eyes or have difficulty maintaining eye contact during conversations.
- Speak in a whisper: A shy girl might speak more softly or in a whisper in the presence of other people, for fear that she might attract too much attention.
- Withdrawal in social situations: Shy people may be less likely to attend social events or interact with strangers.
- Avoiding public presentations or speeches: Shyness can lead to avoiding situations where they have to speak in public or be the center of attention.
- Nervousness or agitation in the presence of other people: Shy people may show signs of nervousness, such as trembling or excessive sweating, in social situations.
- Difficulties in initiating conversations: Shy people may have difficulty initiating conversations or expressing their thoughts and feelings.
- Lack of self-confidence: Shy people may lack self-confidence and be self-critical.
- Prefers interactions with small groups or close friends: A shy girl might feel more comfortable interacting with small groups of people or close friends, instead of larger social situations.
Conclusion
I wrote this article about shy women to help you as a man realize what I'm hearing.
Besides the fact that I was shy and resonated with the shy woman, I'm speaking from experience.
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