How to be a man no matter what you look like? Even when you're a naked man?
We as humans are different. Whether it's facial or body features, each of us looks different. Even one of the twins has a feature that the other doesn't have.
Everyone has their own qualities and flaws. Everyone has their own pace of evolving, learning, and achieving goals.
That's why it would be very stupid for you to compare yourself to another man:
"That one is better."
"Why does that man have more results than me?"
"I will never be like that man."
"That man achieved success, I failed."
By doing this, you are giving away your confidence and power as a man to another man. You do not accept yourself as you are and want to have the man's life respect.
You don't love yourself as you are, you don't accept yourself as you are, you don't love your life as it is.
Do you want to start copying someone else or do you want to be a confident man just like you are?
It's stupid to compare yourself to other men.
I used to make this mistake in the past. I always fell into this mental trap where I would compare myself to other men or want to be like them, only to see that they were successful and I wasn't.
Man X has a lot of money. Man Y has more sex than me. Man Z has a cool car, etc.
It's just that I didn't accept myself and ended up falling into a depression not accepting my life.
Not accepting my masculinity as it is.
This is how I ended up doing nothing with my life, saying to myself: "I have no chance of getting there."
After a few tries and failures, I came to believe this.
I had the impression that if I tried 2-3 times and didn't succeed, that was it, my life was over.
Believe me, it is not so!
You have your own rhythm and process in life.
Each of us has our own rhythm and process in life. I may do things faster because that's how "mother nature" gave me. Another man does things slower because that's how he is by nature.
I might get results in a few days, but you might get results in a few weeks.
It differs from person to person, it differs from case to case. As I said, we are also different in physical appearance.
You need to learn to trust the process and not give up.
That if you give up you won't get any results.
A man does NOT give up so easily, especially when it comes to his goals. Come on women, you still give up if you see there is no cooperation, but when it comes to your goals, "dig until you reach the end."
There was another saying my mentor told me and I want to mention it to you too:
"Do you put your penis in half or all the way when you have sex? A man puts it in all the way, a boy puts it in a quarter or half. How do you do it?"
Start using self-irony.
Whether you're bald, have a belly, have a small waist, or are short, start using the power of self-irony.
I do this every time and it works really well.
Why? We are human and we have emotions. Depending on the thoughts you have, certain emotions are activated in your body.
If you immerse yourself in those thoughts, you immerse yourself in those emotions. It's simple. Pure logic, right?
But you can "trick" your mind by using self-irony.
Let me give you more examples:
I was with a student of mine and a friend of his at Constituției. The student I was mentoring went to approach 2 women to get their Instagram or Facebook.
I went there to help him. When there are several women, for the man to take the Instagram of one of the women, the other woman has to be kept busy. Said and done. In the meantime, that friend also came, being jealous of what we were doing.
Before we started, he said: "Wow, how do you do something like that? How do you go to women and approach them when you don't have a fancy car?"
These people want to demoralize you or are jealous that they can't do it. Anyway.
This friend of his started attacking me in front of everyone.
"Hey, are you gay?"
"Hey, are you sure you like women?"
This was just to take out his frustration on me and lower my self-worth. Guess what I did?
I used self-irony. I was a man no matter what I looked like.
"Yes, I really thought about my sexual orientation when I was little. If I like men or women."
He tried this several times until he saw that it wasn't working and decided to come and say: "Shall we go? Shall we stay?"
This is what I'm teaching you now: How to be a man no matter what you look like?
That's what I showed him. I'm a man and I'm naked. I'm cool even if I'm a "naked man."
Start showing yourself exactly as you are.
The moment you, as a man, begin to accept yourself as you are, you will no longer try to hide your flaws, insecurities, or weaknesses from people.
If the person says you're jerking off, tell them: "Yes, you know I do it 2-3 times a day. Don't you?"
You will see how your self-confidence explodes and you start to gain courage.
You start to become authentic and phenomenal because you show yourself exactly as you are.
A man who is a man and in a naked body.
Conclusion
Many people will try to demoralize you when they are frustrated and jealous of your success.
Now you've learned how to be a man no matter what you look like. Even if you're naked, a naked man, you're still a phenomenal man.
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