Yesterday we discussed a rather interesting article, namely "Escorts, Matrimonials, should you go as a man?". If you haven't read it, I recommend you do.
Today I want to talk about "What is it and how do you avoid becoming sexually obsessed?".
When I say "How do you avoid"I mean something completely different. I don't mean repressing or hiding your sexual intent. I mean "How to avoid becoming sexually obsessed".
God forbid you avoid telling him that you don't do you like sex or you don't have sex that casually.
We both know that you want to have sex with her or with multiple women. You're already imagining how to get to sex with her faster.
If you rush, the woman will refuse to have sex with you.
Because I was just talking about how you say to yourself:
"Okay, okay, shut up, let's fuck each other"
"Okay, come on, when are we going to have sex?"
"I'm already waiting for us to fuck."
While she talks about what she likes, wants, etc. This is the big mistake many men make when it comes to seduction. They end up in the position of being sexually obsessed.
They are in such a rush to get to sex to feel accepted, validated, and appreciated that they are no longer present during the conversation with the woman.
They put a huge amount of pressure on their shoulders and then they wonder why they can't have sex.
Or maybe why the woman doesn't answer their messages/phone calls the next day.
What is a sexual addict? What does it mean to be sexually addicted?
When I say sexually obsessed, I mean a different image than the one you have.
I'm not referring to a man who openly admits that he doesn't have any unofficial sex, etc.
I'm referring to a person, a man who 90% of the conversations he has with women are just about sex.
It's just about how, what, and in what way he would do it with that woman.
She talks about her passions, you tell her about her beautiful breasts, etc.
I understand that this is a sex addiction which I had as a teenager. In which my conversations were 90% just about "How fast should we fwt?"and under no circumstances knowing the woman in question."
The difference between a man and a sexually obsessed boy
There are psychological causes for sex addiction that can be resolved through various therapy techniques.
I used to be a sex addict. As I said above, my conversations were all about sex and nothing but sex. You rarely saw any conversations about what women liked.
The difference between a man who wants sex and a boy obsessed with sex is the confidence he exudes.
You will always see a man acting naturally when it comes to touching and leading a woman towards sexual intercourse. You don't notice the obsession with sex in his eyes.
In contrast, with a little boy, you will notice in his eyes and movements the excitement he has to get to sex as quickly as possible.
In moments like these, there is an inner pressure and stress that that little boy doesn't yet know how to handle. It took me a while to realize this too.
That's why I recommend you make an appointment for a free consultation.
How do you avoid becoming a sex addict?
When it comes to avoiding as I expressed above, I don't mean not discussing sex at all. I mean not getting to the point where the scales tip to just sex and nothing more.
That's why I suggest you work with sexual addiction. You can turn to me or someone else. The choice is yours.
Secondly, I suggest you juggle the topics of discussion. What I mean.
From now on, in conversations with women, he brings up more questions about her than about sex.
A good example would be the following:
She: I was at work and just got home. What about you?
You: I wrote an article that I published now, I'm excited about what I wrote there. Do you want to see it?
She: Yes, I would really like that.
You: Do you promise anything?
She: What?
You: That you won't kiss me/fall in love with me after reading it?
She: haha, believe it or not, we're barely talking
You: Okay, I feel more relieved, since we're still talking about "we're barely talking," tell me what you like to do? What things do you do without feeling like your time is passing?
What exactly did I do in the previous conversation? I brought up a "sexual topic," but I didn't bother to pursue it. I continued the conversation normally, and later they bring up another sexual topic again.
This action will save you a lot of smelling of "sexually obsessed".
Conclusion
Start focusing on getting to know the woman and wanting to make her day better. Stop focusing on "How quickly can you get to sexual topics?".
Trust me, sex will happen if you are a man throughout your interaction with her.
Even if it doesn't happen, learn not to depend on sex with a woman. It will save you a lot of mental stress.
So my suggestion again is to schedule a free 1-on-1 consultation with me to discuss your issues with women. Click the button below:
