Just last night, a community member posted a question on the group about a certain test of a woman. Following this, I decided to write an article primarily to introduce you to how a woman can fool you with just words.
That is if you are not masculine enough, your masculine energy It's down to earth and you let it lead you.
It's very important to know when you're being tested and when you're not, in order to know how to manage such situations.
An example of when they try to trick you
At this moment, many people who wouldn't know that the woman was testing you would probably be afraid of losing her or becoming a victim.
In the past, I did this because of my insecurity, lack of information, distrust, etc.
More directly and briefly, I was becoming a good boy controlled by her and "dancing to her tune."
Why does a woman cheat on you? (cheats on you)
You will meet many women over the years who will try to manipulate you through various things.
Don't worry, some women do it consciously, others unconsciously.
This girl does this because inside she feels insecure, distrustful, and invalidated.
To fill that inner void, she tries to make men, probably unconsciously, fall at her feet and beg for her.
She tries to trick you into giving her all the validation, the power to charge in. She tries to trick you into begging her.
When he wants to trick you into becoming desperate
Validation is that inner void of inadequacy, that you don't feel good enough with who you are, and through this you try to compensate through external factors that make you feel good all the time.
Many women, 80% of this population, have this.
Even men, because I had this too and it affected me quite a bit.
However, a woman who constantly demands validation is a toxic woman with whom you should absolutely not enter a relationship.
How should you react when he wants to trick you?
With those women, it's very important not to react out of need, insecurity, fear of losing her, because that's what she wants.
The moment you do these things, she will consider you weak and move on to the next one.
Or he'll even keep you as a validation while he tries to win the attention of another man.
It charges with "energy" from you and goes to others.
As long as you don't give it to her, don't beg her, she will make a point of receiving it from you.
The gentleman in question is in the community and listens to my advice, which he did. He did not provide the necessary validation and came up with the following:
"Miumin Muammer and did I answer well? I want to mention that after that she got angry and started saying: leave me alone. I said I was angry too and after about an hour she was nice to me, calling me to her in her arms.
What does this thing mean?
He showed her that he is a man, he stands in his position of power and doesn't go along with her lead. He doesn't let himself be manipulated by her "fake loss."
He knew it was a test and continued to stand in his masculine position.
Which denotes the confidence and self-assurance that women crave these days.
Of course, my recommendation is not to be in a relationship with other women because they are toxic.
The first validation you give them will make them go to someone else or want to be with someone else.
What you can do is just be sexually with them and that's it. Yes, there's nothing wrong with it, whoever says it's wrong has a limiting belief about masculinity and choices.
I'm here to teach you to become a man, not a woman.
My recommendation
My recommendation is to work on:
