How does the fear of conflict with women affect you?

If you've landed on this article, it means you're afraid of conflict and you always avoid conflicts just to avoid getting into a position of arguing or fighting (if it's really necessary).

I sit and think about how great my fear of conflict was in the past.

I avoided women, even men, just to avoid getting into a position of arguing.

What is the fear of conflict? What is conflict?

Fear of conflict is a common emotion and can affect both men and women. It is important to understand that the approach to conflict can vary from person to person and is not exclusively gender-related.

This fear often leads you to apply the 3 defense mechanisms: flight, fight, or freeze.

I had them all.

When I was arguing with a woman, I would run away instantly.

The moment I wanted to say what bothered or upset me, I froze.

The moment things got more heated – the woman would yell or insult me ​​– I would go into fight mode.

Do you find yourself in these situations? Even men can experience these reactions.

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Where does the fear of conflict come from?

If you've read No Mr. Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover There he presents you with the Mask of the "False Man" who, even though he presents himself as a strong man, is a weak man inside.

The fear of conflict comes from fear of being rejectedThe fact that you don't want to be "unmasked" and seen exactly as you are has awakened a huge fear of conflict.

Think about how we speak our deepest truths with anger, nerves, and resentment.

You are afraid of getting into that position because you will show yourself exactly as you are and how you think.

In those moments you risk a lot to be rejected from the rest of the people.

Fear of conflict in relationships with women

In relationships with women, fear of conflict or fear of rejection will affect you in the following ways:

• Your voice will be pale for fear of conflict.
• Your attitude will be that of a victim so as not to risk being attacked.
• Your attitude will be lacking in confidence and security.
• Your masculinity will be castrated and trampled underfoot.
• Your needs and desires will not be respected.
• You will receive a disrespectful message.
• You will be insulted or constantly yelled at.
• You will be given constant emotional, verbal, or physical abuse.
• People will act as if they are superior to you.
• You will always be left out.
• Women will take pity on you.
• You will not be seen, heard or listened to by women.

How do you solve the fear of conflict?

The fear of conflict is resolved through several methods, both rational, logical and emotional, therapeutic.

First of all, to resolve on an emotional, therapeutic level, you need guidance from a specialist to present you with information on how to detect trauma.

Here you can start with the book: "The 5 wounds that prevent us from being ourselves"by Lise Bourbeau.

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If you are a rational and logical person then I recommend you do the following things:

However, if you are facing a fear of conflict as a man, here are some important things to consider:

1. Open communication: Instead of avoiding conflict, try to develop open and constructive communication skills. Listen carefully and express your points of view in a calm and respectful manner. Mutual understanding can help resolve issues without escalating the conflict.
2. Managing Emotions: Learn to manage your emotions in conflict situations. Deep breathing and relaxation techniques can help maintain a calm state during tense moments.
3. Empathy and perspective: Try to see the situation from the other person's perspective and honestly put yourself in their thoughts and feelings. This can help reduce tension and find better solutions.
4. Assertiveness: Instead of avoiding conflict, try practicing assertiveness. This means expressing your opinion and needs in a clear and direct way, without violating the rights or feelings of others.
5. Learn from past experiences: Reflect on how you have handled conflict in the past and what you might do differently in the future. Past experiences can be instructive and help you evolve in your approach to conflict.
6. Seek help if necessary: If your fear of conflict becomes a constant source of stress or is affecting your relationships and well-being, consider seeking help from a therapist or counselor. They can provide support in developing conflict management skills and managing emotions.

Conclusion

Fear of conflict affects you quite a bit in your relationships with women, as you've noticed in the characteristics below.

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