Are you hiding your virginity? In the last few months I've met a few men who have told me, secretly or with fear, that they are still virgins. Some of the men were maybe 18-20 years old, other men maybe 25 years old. Regardless of their age, it was a great shame for them to still be virgins.
From a social point of view, it seems a terrible shame for a man to still be a virgin at this age.
From a social point of view for some women it differs, it can be a quality or a shame. It depends from woman to woman.
What is virginity?
what does he say ChatGPT?
"Virginity is a term that refers to the state of not having had sexual intercourse. It is often associated with the fact that a person has not had penetrative sexual intercourse, but it can have different connotations for different cultures and individuals.
Key aspects related to virginity include:
- Biological Virginity: This refers to the fact that a person has never had penetrative sex, which can leave the hymen, a thin membrane located inside the vagina, intact. However, the hymen can be torn or damaged naturally during physical activities, such as sports or using tampons, and is not always an accurate indicator of virginity.
- Cultural Virginity: The significance of virginity can vary depending on culture and society. In some cultures, maintaining virginity until marriage is valued and may have significant social or religious implications. In others, this importance may be less or not relevant at all.
- Personal Virginity"Each person may have a different personal perception of virginity. Some people may consider that they have lost their virginity after any type of sexual contact, while others may perceive virginity as being related to penetrative sexual intercourse."
What am I saying, Miumin Muammer?
Virginity is the lack of sexual intercourse or any form of sexual penetration with a woman. Strictly and to the point.
More directly, if you want me to say: You've never had sex with a woman.
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Is virginity at 27 an obstacle?
For many men, virginity is a huge obstacle and shame when it comes to approaching women. They hide, falter, or even avoid approaching women for fear of being found out.
I understand. I was in this situation where I considered virginity a huge obstacle to attracting, conquering, or keeping a woman.
Some men get fed up with this fear by going to escorts, matrimonials just to have sexual contact with a woman. In my opinion, it is a worthless, unproductive action.
Even if the reasons are reasonable, they don't help you in several ways.
The only point of view that helps you is to say that "I'm not a virgin anymore.".
If you did it, don't worry, it's okay. The decision and the fact are final. You have nothing to hide.
I'm saying this for those guys who haven't gone yet and are planning to.
Virginity is not an obstacle to approaching, talking to, and dating women. It is only an obstacle if you believe in your mind that it is an obstacle.
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Virginity is an asset. How do you lose your virginity?
From my point of view, virginity is an asset, a quality that you can use in front of the women you want to approach.
Yes, it's possible that your fear or shame is much greater than my rational views.
You're right, but I want to tell you a real story.
I was at a workshop in Bucharest where I met a boy who was a student in my personal development courses. He secretly admitted to me that he was a virgin and was afraid to tell her or have sex with a woman.
I understood him and asked him the following question:
"Do you think hiding or avoiding it will help you?"
He came up with the answer: "No, I'm just self-sabotaging myself so I don't end up in intimate moments with women."
The moment I saw that he had achieved this and asked for my help, I offered it to him.
I explained the following to him:
"Until you get this pressure off of yourself, it will be hard for you to accept your insecurity, your fear. If you really want to evolve and end up having sex with women, then approach 10 women online with the following text: Hello, I'm pretty scared to approach you because I'm a virgin, but here I am, haha, X, excited"
I got off the train later, and he continued to approach the women.
A week later I saw him again and he said to me: "Muammer, I went out with a girl, had sex, and am in a relationship after approaching her the way you said."
I was super happy for him. I was happy that he had come out of that fear that was freezing him.
Look how virginity became an asset and not an obstacle.
Conclusion
Virginity is an obstacle if you look for reasons and excuses to consider it that way, but it can be a wonderful asset to use in front of women.
I've met many women who have fetishes with virgins or want to help guys lose their virginity.
It's just up to you to take responsibility for this.
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