You like her and you want to know if you have a chance. However, you don't seem to have the heart to tell her directly how you feel. What if she rejects you?
Your pride and self-esteem would suffer. Plus, you probably wouldn't want others to know that you were rejected. Especially people she could tell. Still, you want her, you know that for sure. The only solution would be to figure out what kind of men she admires so you can see if you fit the mold. And then, maybe you can take the first step. You would reduce the chances of failure.
Here's where to start and how to tell if you have a chance with her.
How to find out the type of men you like
Every woman has a pattern. It's not a hard and fast rule, but in most situations, both we men and women have a certain pattern that we admire. And that catches our attention faster and easier. With this pattern, we would go out on the town and maybe even build a long-term relationship.
How do you find out what her ideal type of man is? Or, better said, how do you find out how a woman thinks?
Now it's easy to do this. You can start by following her social media profiles. From the pictures, to the posts and the likes she leaves on other profiles. Everything will tell you what expectations she has from the opposite sex.
What he likes to do in his free time, who are the people he goes out with and what his passions are. You can find out what relationships he had in the past and follow the profiles of those men. That way you will see what he appreciated at that time, from appearance to personality. Everything is just a click away.
Then, if you have mutual friends, it will be even easier. You can use the field work and, what's more, you have a spy behind enemy lines.
Don't forget to analyze her too. Pay attention to all the details. Notice how she dresses, where she goes out to eat, or what type of events she attends. This way you can create a true robot portrait.
A small note: don't make this an obsession because it could become problematic. Your goal is to get her to tell you how you feel, not to stalk her.
Why the type of man you prefer isn't always relevant
Maybe she's had toxic relationships. Maybe she's tired of going from one disappointment to another with a certain type of man. Or, maybe the pattern was used in short-term relationships, just for fun. She may have different expectations from the man she wants a serious, long-term relationship with. Most of the time, there's a big difference between a fun fling and a passionate love affair.
So, it's important not to try to change yourself too much. Be natural and confident. Of course, if you notice that she's elegant and appreciates seriousness, then you can understand how you should behave or dress to get noticed.
You will definitely always impress with a relaxed but confident style. A well-balanced humor and elegance in gestures. It will be important to have a capacity for rapid adaptation. To find funny conversations based on common passions. To please her when necessary or to contradict her to maintain a degree of tension between you. For your development, I recommend reading constantly tips for successful men.
However, from the first interactions you have with her you can understand if you have a real chance. Forced love is not possible and if you don't see any sign of interest from her, it's better to give up. There will be other chances, plus, as you already know, The pond has fish.
