What do you do when he answers curtly and briefly?

The "quick and dirty answer" obstacle

Let's say that you approach women, or on social media (Facebook, Instagram, tinder, Badoo, etc.) or even face2face on the street. It doesn't matter in what situation, what matters is that you made the decision to stop standing back and being a spectator and started being the player.

You approach those women because you feel attracted to them and you do your duty as a man to show your intention by going to her or texting her, but every time she responds curtly and briefly.

Every time you approach them, you run into this obstacle. They don't get involved, they answer dryly and briefly, they answer slowly, evasively, etc. You don't see any interest at all.

Now let's see what you do if he answers dryly and briefly?

Maybe you won't even make it. to be blocked.

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Why is he answering so briefly and bluntly?

Today, because of the men who are now, women have come to be worshipped. They have come to be put on a pedestal and given total validation.

That's why it's 100% your responsibility to learn what to do with the "She answers my messages dryly", "She answers my messages briefly" type of women.

Because men are no longer masculine, confident, direct, honest and authentic men, they have become weak, effeminate, fearful. Yes, I was here 3 years ago. I was doing these exact things too.

What exactly do they do? They send them 999+ messages a day, comment on their photos constantly, shower them with likes, and worship them as if they were a deity. Yes, women are wonderful, phenomenal, but these days, women have an inbox full of validation.

I send them messages of: "How beautiful you are" / "Please come out with me." / "You don't want to go out, I'll be your sugar daddy" etc.

She automatically created a filter for herself. This filter of answer briefly and concisely it is actually a test to see who is able to pass it. You probably didn't notice it being subtle.

Guess what happens when he answers curtly?

Women have become so bored with it. They barely pay attention to messages, to what you say. That's because other men fill them with validation. They worship them. They pray to them.

With your inbox full of messages, you realize that she won't give you the respect and attention she deserves when another "man" tells her how beautiful she is, how magnificent she is.

I used to do these exact things too, haha. It's funny now because I see it from a different perspective as I gain more experience.

She always ends up giving you short and dry answers because of these things. And you get frustrated, angry and start cursing and insulting her. Because you enter in an emotional wound. You don't have to, you're wasting energy. You'd better save it for reading this article.

Learn to stop doing things like that and work on yourself. Put yourself first.

Stop worshipping them.

From today, stop complimenting women so much, thinking that they will give you attention and time. That they will talk to you by putting her first. No. You come first.

Stop! No more validation. No more cuteness from the start. You become masculine. !

Woman is not everything in your life. Work on your confidence, self-esteem, your emotional wounds and afterwards you will see that you will open your horizons a lot in your mind.

That's how you'll understand her mind, how this male-female dynamic works.

What do you do when he answers curtly and briefly?

A lot of men here make a big mistake, and I did too for a long time. When she answers curtly, we tend to ask her more questions, write more, try to get her to talk.

But guess what?

We're practically inspiring despair already. She's already realized that we've put her on a pedestal and we're doing everything we can to have her.

No. We don't do that anymore. But guess what we're going to do?

We will create certain lines that will show her that these things don't work with us. That we want her to invest, to get involved, to respect us just as we respect her.

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So, how do we create these replicas?

By being funny, playful. Here you can attack yourself a lot as a man if you haven't resolved your emotional wounds. And you see that the woman senses if you are nervous, frustrated, anxious. She will feel it immediately and you will fail her test.

I assume you know how to pass their tests and what their tests mean. If not click HERE and read.

Let me give you some examples to use and then you can create your own lines that are AUTHENTIC to you. That's the main thing!

Lines for when he answers dryly and briefly

1. Did your teacher scold you so badly when you were little that now you talk so little? haha
2. uhh, I have to bring my license to pull your tongue, haha
3. And I thought my grandmother didn't talk much... haha
4. Should I bring a sign language interpreter? So I can understand what you're saying? haha

And the examples can go on. Look at them as playful and funny, but with the intention of saying: "I want you to invest. To get involved. I know what I want because I offer the same."

And boom, you'll have her attention a lot more because you did what the other 999+ men on her list didn't.

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FAQs – Frequently Asked Questions

Q: Why do you answer so bluntly and briefly?

A: The short answer is that you are no different from other men. The full answer is in the article.

Q: How do you get a woman to stop answering you bluntly?

A: You bring this to her attention, but in a funny way. If you try to hold her accountable, to make her feel guilty, the effect will be the opposite: she will move on to the next man, who has boundaries and expresses them in a healthy way.