You have entered the world of personal development, seduction, dating etc. and you started being a man, but the woman got angry. What do you do when she doesn't look for you anymore?
You started to display behaviors, attitudes, gestures, and words of a real man. Before, you were a little boy that women saw as a gentleman, polite, kind, and well-mannered, or perhaps you were entering the friendzone.
You started to be more in control of yourself and your emotions. You show quite a lot of emotional strength. Through all these examples that I gave you, women started to get upset.
He started getting angry at you all the time and stopped looking for you.
What do you do when they don't look for you anymore?
When women stop looking for you because you're direct
I don't know if you've noticed from the various articles I've written that I tell you to be direct, firm, and communicate your boundaries like a man. Regardless of whether you risk losing her, getting upset, or bothering her.
If you follow me on Youtube, Instagram, Tiktok or Facebook I suggest you do the same.
The consequences of this change in attitude are the following:
- women will see you as a man
- you start to have more self-respect
- you start to have more trust self
- you start not letting yourself be trampled on anymore
- you start to create attraction and interest from women
- you start to become a potential sexual partner by raising women's sexual appetite
- you start attracting quality women
- you start to have a happy life because you accept your masculine nature
But different women you know or used to know will start to get upset or act arrogant and ambitious because you say "NO" to many of their behaviors.
For a moment you will think there is something wrong with you and you turn away from your words, from your masculine nature.
Guess what, the woman will think:
"Yeah, it was just a prank he tried to pull."
And these women go back to their old behaviors towards you. They go back to that lack of respect they were showing you.
Why? They saw that you were not committed and concrete with what you said. You did not stand firm on your boundaries.
These women were just testing you. When they stop looking for you because they're upset, it's just a test to see if you're really a man in his normal nature or if you're just wearing a mask.
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What do you do when they stop looking for you because you change your attitude and become a man?
What do you do when she stops looking for you? Start accepting your nature as a man, and for that you need to act when you say something.
If you told a woman the following:
"Look, I've thought about it and I'm not interested in a friendship with you. I'm attracted to you and I want to f*ck you, not be your friend. If you want a friendship, fine, but I'm going to leave this connection. If you share the same good feeling, let's just let it happen naturally."
What do you do in these moments? What do you do when they don't look for you anymore?
When she stops looking for you because she's upset that you said that phrase to her, that's her problem. You don't have to change your mind or what you said just for the sake of keeping her in your life.
You need to stay clear and specific on the words you mention.
Why? The woman will see you as a man or will start to see you as a man when you, regardless of whether she leaves, loses her, gets upset, etc., remain in your position as a man.
Don't wait to change when she gets upset.
At that moment, several things will happen.
What to do when a woman stops looking for you – feminine energy will come to you
The woman who sees that you are a man will start coming towards you. Even if she acts angry, even if you act unapproachable, she will look for reasons to notice you and come towards you.
Attraction, interest, passion, and respect for you will grow in her eyes because you did something that many others haven't done in her life: They stood firm!
You didn't seek to change your behavior, words, or attitude just so you wouldn't lose her.
You didn't seek to become something other than you are just to keep it in your life.
You didn't try to beg her to stay in your life.
No. You were and are a man, and that woman sees that in you.
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What do you do when a woman stops looking for you? Women who want to be "the man" will leave
Women with low self-esteem who hate their father or are always trying to act strong, those will probably leave for a while.
But don't worry. Let me tell you a secret.
Even these women who are proud and don't want to let go of their barriers look at you with respect now.
These women will not come back anytime soon. They will leave and look for another "man" to fall at their feet.
It's just that these women will get tired of being "men" and dating girls. They will think about you constantly and come back.
They will come back because when he stopped looking for you, because he got angry because of the limit you set, you remained a man, and these women want men in their lives.
No matter how much they beat themselves up for not being a man, rest assured. You are a man if you apply my advice.
Many women came back after a few months or even a year just to have sex with me.
The answer to the question "What do you do when she stops looking for you?" is to stand your ground and the woman will respect you.
Why aren't they looking for you anymore because you've changed your attitude?
As I said above, there can be several considerations, several factors. We can deduce them from my experience and if we put ourselves in her shoes.
1) When they stop looking for you because they are testing you
A woman stops looking for you because there is a possibility that she is testing your changed attitude or the way you behave. She wants to see if you are serious.
2) When he stops looking for you because he's playing power games
Narcissistic women who have father issues may play power games to make you doubt yourself. They do this so they can be in power and you can insist on seeking it.
3) When he stops looking for you because he's scared
There is a possibility that some women feel so overwhelmed by your love and cuteness that they are afraid that you are rushing into a relationship with her.
Why is he avoiding you and why is he lying to you to avoid you?
You will see that some women don't reach the point where they stop looking for you, but they respond to you out of common sense by giving you reasons and excuses why they can't see you. They don't have time, etc.
She's mostly not attracted to you anymore. Why? For several reasons:
- You were too suffocating with the messages.
- You suffocated her with proposals to see you.
- You suffocated her with your declarations of love.
- You pressured her into a classic relationship.
- you acted like a child
All of these actions have made her see you as unattractive in her eyes. She can snap her fingers, and you reappear immediately.
But why is he lying to avoid you?
Women need guys to hang onto their asses because it confirms to them that they are attractive and interesting as women.
Your attitude feeds his pride and self-esteem. If he tells you he doesn't want anything to do with you anymore, he automatically risks losing you.
And if she loses you, you can go in another direction, to another girl, and she will be left without a fan of her own. It's important for her goddess psyche to have men like you around to worship her.
Finally, another reason why he may prefer to lie to you is related to what you inspired him with.
If he felt desperate, he doesn't want to see scenes where you complain about her leaving you, or ask questions about why things didn't work out, or have fits of jealousy, or beg her not to leave you.
So they prefer to postpone the moment in the hope that you will somehow disappear on your own.
Conclusion
Accept your nature as a man. Don't change yourself to suit a woman's needs just because you risk losing her. You only change yourself for the hole between her legs.
Rest assured that without that hole, you are still a human being, a person like you.
See what it can offer you more than just an intimate moment, sex.
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