Before we talk about male castration, I want to discuss a few concrete things.
Women practice "castration" very easily these days, because most Husbands they ended up allowing this. They ended up giving them the "opportunity" to castrate them and become them men, and men become women.
You can see this clearly when you go on a date with several couples. The most common relationship where "emotional castration" occurs is the fat woman and thin man type of couple.
I think you've seen this kind of couple? She's 2-3 times his length, and he's a "cripple".
There is clearly a relationship based on humiliation and the castration of masculinity.
Or I'll give you one analogy:
Think of a horse that is free, enjoying every day it has, but the woman comes and puts a bridle on it. What does it do in those moments?
He will do what the woman says.
He will go where the woman says.
He will stay as long and wherever the woman wants.
You are a gelding who is ridden by a woman and taken wherever she wants.
What does castration mean?
Castration in general terms means several things. That's why we're going to turn to ChatGPT to give you a more academic definition.
Castration is a term that refers to the removal or incapacitation of the male or female genital organs of an organism. The procedure varies depending on the context and can have different purposes in veterinary medicine, animal husbandry, human medicine, and other fields. Here are some of the main meanings of the term:
- Castration in animals: In animal husbandry and veterinary medicine, castration refers to the removal of the testicles in males (male castration) or the removal of the ovaries or uterus in females (female castration). This is usually done to control animal populations, reduce aggressive behaviors, or improve the animals' breeding qualities, as well as to prevent reproduction.
- Human castration: Human castration refers to the removal of the testicles in males or the ovaries in females for medical or surgical purposes. For example, orchiectomy is the procedure to remove the testicles, which may be performed in the treatment of prostate cancer or other conditions. Female castration is also used in certain medical situations.
- Chemical castration: Chemical castration is a method of controlling libido and sexual function in men or women by administering drugs that inhibit the production of sex hormones. It may be used as part of treatment for sex offenders or for other medical purposes.
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What does emotional castration mean?
In general, "emotional castration" can refer to a situation in which a person represses or inhibits their feelings or emotional expression for various reasons.
This may be the result of past trauma, difficulties in interpersonal relationships, or other factors. Suppressing emotions can have negative consequences on a person's well-being and can lead to problems in communication and interpersonal relationships.
That's why I'm going back to friendly, non-university language. Do you remember when you were a child how your mother used to tell you:
- manipulate to do certain things
- She blamed you for being wrong and not her.
- blackmail you
- She was always right, and you weren't.
- she is the adult and is always right
- He would beat you if you did something wrong.
- Argue, insult, or yell at you
Such situations can manifest an emotional castration. A fear, a fear of manifesting yourself as you want. An inner terror of showing yourself exactly as you are.
To survive as a child you learned a defense mechanism against fear of conflict, fear of rejection.
To avoid those emotions, that pain, you began to create a mask by being:
- good
- politicians
- a nice horse
- not to upset or disturb anyone
- to keep quiet even if you don't like it
- to be under siege of abuse
- to accept being humiliated
- not to communicate your limits
I think you're starting to understand what I'm really talking about. You probably remember relationships where you swallowed a lot just because you didn't have the courage to assert yourself. To let the man inside you come out.
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What does male castration mean?
We've taken them one by one. Now it's time to talk strictly about how a man ends up being repressed in an interaction or relationship with a woman.
I gave you an example at the beginning of the general relationship where you can see the castration of a man.
The typical relationship where the woman is 2-3 times his weight.
Have you ever wondered why that man is with that woman?
Didn't they ask you questions like that?
You yourself may have been in a relationship like this. Haven't you ever wondered why you accept and swallow so many things from that woman?
Women who are plump have a very deep wound of humiliation. They have an enormous need for attention. In addition to the fact that they have a hatred for their father, they try to bury it with compulsive eating.
That hatred is turned on the man she is with. She humiliates him, offends him, makes fun of him, etc.
This is just to unconsciously get revenge on her father who was probably very harsh on her or walked out of her life.
The man, on the other hand, has a great fear of rejection and abandonment. He accepts and swallows all those things because in childhood he was rejected or abandoned by his mother.
These two people who ended up in that relationship are just creating the exterior of recreating their childhood.
Childhood traumas.
That man was castrated in childhood and is castrated in his relationship with that woman.
He represses all his masculinity out of fear and dread. He has a terrible fear of his mother.
These actions happen at a subtle level, an unconscious level.
How does castration happen in a relationship?
I said these things above, but I want to put them in a light again so you can see them better.
- manipulate to do certain things
- She blames you for being wrong and not her.
- they are blackmailing you
- She is always right, and you are not.
- He beats you if you do something wrong.
- scolds, insults, or yells at you
- gives you orders or responsibilities, even if they are hers
- does not respect you and does not respect your needs, boundaries
- makes you look ridiculous in front of your friends
- He/She behaves offensively towards you.
- she is in power or considers herself in power
- he plays games of come and go
- lie, hide things about yourself
- make power plays
- doesn't let you be a man and constantly considers you a child
- doesn't care about your opinion or what you say
Or I'll give you one analogy:
Think of a horse that is free, enjoying every day it has, but the woman comes and puts a bridle on it. What does it do in those moments?
He will do what the woman says.
He will go where the woman says.
He will stay as long and wherever the woman wants.
How does castration happen at the first conversation or first meeting?
Things are quite similar, but not entirely, because the woman knows she doesn't have total power over you yet.
They will only seek to do:
- power plays (answers dryly, briefly, answers difficultly, does not make an effort)
- act arrogant or haughty
- does not show feelings or emotions
- consistently refuses to kiss or have sex with you
- blames you even though she knows she was wrong
- wants to annoy you, constantly upsets you to satisfy himself
You're doing the right thing, because he hasn't put the bridle on you yet. If he keeps doing this and you fall into his trap, he'll put it on you, don't worry.
How do you get out of a castrating relationship?
If you have enough balls to rationally and logically exit that relationship, you can do it.
Often even if you leave that abusive relationship, the next relationship will be the same.
That's why I recommend that you work on the traumas you have on an emotional level.
However, I can give you actions you can take by having courage:
- start saying "NO" to what you don't want, even if the woman screams or gets upset
- start communicating your boundaries and maintaining them, even if the woman tries to manipulate you
- start staying in a position of power, even if she threatens to leave you
- start being okay with rejection, even if she stops offering you Fri
- start going to the gym, learn a contact sport
- start reading about the subconscious mind to be aware of automations
- read about the 5 emotional wounds to be aware of why you feel what you feel
Take off the bridle and step into the light. Realize that you have your own personality, choice, independence.
You are the man and take the reins of the relationship. Lead it, don't let the woman lead it.
Conclusion
Even though I was castrated in the past in my interactions and relationships with women, I always wanted to evolve. I always asked myself "Why".
Why did I end up in this situation and what do I have to learn?
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