Why did he cheat on you?

Let's try to figure this question out a little

"Why did your partner cheat on you?"

Many men think that if a woman cheats on them or leaves them out of the blue, it's automatically the woman's fault. As I also thought by the way. Always the fault of the person in front of me, but never my fault.

Yes, ethically speaking it is not good to end up cheating. It's much better to tell that person that you don't want anything at all and be left with a clear conscience. As would be the normal and honest thing to do. But now we're not talking about that, we're talking about why a woman ends up cheating on a man.

This tactic of throwing the blame on the person in front of you, judging them, offending them, is just a mechanism by which you throw your nerves, frustrations and anger on them. It's just your way of getting rid of those emotions that you think are not ok for you. It's just a way to plug that emotional wound. To run away from you.

A little analysis

But why are you looking at what that person did and not looking at yourself?

Why don't you analyze yourself?

Why are you wasting your energy unnecessarily doing these things?

In my opinion, there's no point in wasting that energy and it's much better to channel it into analyzing myself to figure out why it got to that point.

The truth about why he cheated on you

Now we go even deeper into the information. A woman will give you different reasons when she cheated on you or broke up with you. But they are only a facade. The real reason behind is LACK OF ATTRACTION and that DON'T CONSIDER YOU A MAN ANYMORE.

During the relationship, you made certain mistakes such as:

1. you were someone else in the beginning, and with time you showed your true face AS a thin and super caring MAN
2. you failed all the tests he gave you
3. he saw that you are doing nothing with your life
4. he saw that you had no mission, no purpose as a man
5. he saw that you stay in your comfort zone and are not brave

And more. That's why I say, that I better analyze what mistakes I made and improve them, than to judge and offend her. It doesn't make me any different from the rest of the men if I do that. Moreover, I destroy myself.

What should you do if your partner cheated on you?

If that's what she felt, that's strictly her problem. It was her decision. I am not responsible for this. I am responsible for how I react. I am only responsible for myself.

I am responsible for starting to see how I can improve, how I can make the next time much better. To maintain the attraction, to be a MAN.

I was also in this situation, for a long time. We end up with the same result over and over again. I never analyzed myself, I threw wine at the other person, I threw venom. But years later, I stopped and took a closer look. I said to myself:It is not OK. The same ending always happens. How the hell?". And I started investing in myself to develop as a man.

You may think that I am telling everything from stories, but I am speaking from my own experience that I lived on my own skin.

Start working at:

• self-confidence, self-esteem
• self love
• your masculinity
• to understand a woman's mind
• your principles and values
• emotional wounds
• your game

Wait, wait…

I know your soul hurts and it feels like your heart is being ripped out of your chest. Because you offered your love, your love, your soul on a platter. I know it hurts.. I know. You looked vulnerable and she had the nerve to cheat on you, but that's the way women are. Always looking for the most valuable and strongest man.

The woman is looking for the man who is the strongest as a grade on the social, financial, physical and mental scale.

That's in her genetics, that's who she is. There is no way you can control that or change that.

It's quite painful because you had a certain belief in your head, and now I come and knock you down when I say these things. Trust me I understand your pain. I have experienced it many times before I learned what I am telling you now.

I had nights when I couldn't sleep and I would just cry from the pain, I was always wondering Why? What have I done?

But head up that I'm now by your side now. I'm here to teach you how to stop getting there, and if you do get there how to manage these things.

Why my partner cheated on me from my own experience

To understand even better, I want to tell you my own experience. It was spring, and I had met a girl who I fell in love with quite a bit. I was a very good boy back then. I was giving expensive gifts, offering all my love, always being by her side anytime and at any time.... I loved her with all my heart.

I was basing my happiness on her. On her presence. How she feels. If she was happy I was too.

Until the signs started that he is going to leave me, that he met someone else.

I had started to become very jealous, very possessive, dramatic, not at all masculine.

And I started following her to find out the truth. I do not recommend you!!! Never do that!!

With all the love I showed her, I was wearing it and showing it… I caught her with another in the car while…. It doesn't matter anymore, but I want you to see that I understand your pain and I've been through these things.

Conclusion

Maybe I'll pass, it doesn't matter, but now I know what I have to do, how to do it.

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