Let's try to understand this question a little.
"Why did your partner cheat on you?"
Many men believe that if a woman cheats on them or leaves them out of the blue, it's automatically the woman's fault. As I used to believe. Always the person in front of me's fault, but never my fault.
Yes, ethically speaking, it's not good to end up cheating. It's much better to tell that person that you don't want anything anymore and leave with a clear conscience. As would be normal and honest to do. But now we're not talking about that, we're talking about why a woman ends up cheating on a man.
This tactic of blaming the person in front of you, judging them, offending them, is just a mechanism through which you take out your nerves, frustrations and anger on them. It's just your way of getting rid of those emotions that you think are not okay for you. It's just a way to plug that emotional wound. To run away from yourself.
A little analysis
But why do you look at what that person did and not look at yourself?
Why don't you analyze yourself?
Why are you wasting your energy unnecessarily doing these things?
In my opinion, there's no point in wasting energy on nothing and it's much better to direct it towards analyzing myself to figure out why it got to that point.
The truth about why he cheated on you
Now we go even deeper into the information. A woman will give you different reasons when she cheated on you or broke up with you. But they are just a facade. The real reason behind it is LACK OF ATTRACTION and that YOU ARE NO LONGER CONSIDERED A MAN.
During the relationship, you made certain mistakes such as:
- you were someone else at first, and over time you showed your true face AS A skinny and super caring MAN
- You failed all the tests he gave you.
- he saw that you were doing nothing with your life
- He saw that you had no mission, no purpose as a man.
- he saw that you were staying in your comfort zone and not being brave
And many more. That's why I say, that it's better to analyze what mistakes I made and improve them, than to judge and offend her. It doesn't differentiate me from the rest of the men if I do that. Moreover, I destroy myself.
What should you do if your partner cheated on you?
If that's how she felt, that's strictly her problem. It was her decision. I'm not responsible for that. I'm responsible for how I react. I'm only responsible for myself.
I am responsible to start seeing how I can improve, how I can make it much better next time. To maintain the attraction, to be a MAN.
I was in this same pretense for a long time. I ended up with the same result over and over again. I never analyzed myself, I was throwing venom at the other person, I was throwing venom. But after years, I stopped and looked more closely. I said to myself: "It's not okay. The same ending always happens. How the hell?". And I started investing in myself to develop as a man.
You may think I'm telling you everything from stories, but I'm speaking from my own experience that I've lived firsthand.
Start working on:
- self-confidence, self-esteem
- self-love
- your masculinity
- to understand a woman's mind
- your principles and values
- emotional wounds
- your game
Wait, wait...
I know your soul hurts and it feels like your heart is being ripped out of your chest. Because you offered your love, your affection, your soul on a platter. I know it's painful.. I know. You showed yourself vulnerable, and she had the courage to cheat on you, but that's how a woman is. Always look for the most valuable and strongest man.
The woman is looking for the strongest man on the social, financial, physical and psychological scale.
That's in her genetics, that's just how she is. There's no way you can control that or change that.
It's quite painful because you had a certain belief in your head, and now I come and knock you to the ground when I say these things. Believe me, I understand that pain. I experienced it many times before I learned what I'm telling you now.
I had nights when I couldn't sleep and I just cried from the pain, I kept wondering Why? What did I do?
But keep your head up, I'm here for you now. I'm here to teach you how to stop yourself from getting there, and if you do, how to handle these things.
Why did my partner cheat on me from my own experience?
To understand even better, I want to tell you my own experience. It was spring, and I had met a girl who I fell in love with quite a bit. I was a very good boy back then. I gave her expensive gifts, I gave her all my love, I always wanted to be by her side anytime and at any time…. I loved her with all my heart.
I based my happiness on her. On her presence. On how she felt. If she was happy, I was too.
Until the signs began that he's going to leave me, that he's met someone else.
I had started to become very jealous, very possessive, dramatic, not at all masculine.
And I started following her to find out the truth. I do not recommend it!!! Never do this!!
With all the love I showed her, carried and showed her… I caught her with another man in the car while…. It doesn't matter anymore, but I want you to see that I understand your pain and I've been through these things.
Conclusion
Maybe I'll pass, it doesn't matter, but now I know what I need to do, how to do it.
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